I've been seeing this girl every now and then for the past

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I've been seeing this girl every now and then for the past three months. We met each other in class, and started to hit things off pretty well around when summer began. Our first date went great, we kissed at the end, and things seemed like they were looking good. Our second date, we went out for drinks, ended up getting a little too drunk,and ended up having sex at my place. For a while afterward, it didn't seem like anything was wrong, we still texted, she seemed ok with what happened, at least until last night.

She came over to my apartment and we smoked up before going out and getting ice cream. I'll preface everything I'm about to say next by noting that we were both really stoned She wanted to go home early, which I at first didn't think much of until she told me that she didn't want what happened last time to happen again right now, which kind of caught me off guard. I walked her to her place, where we said good night before I gave her another kiss. In my stoned stupor, I made the idiot decision of asking her what was going on between us. I only wanted to clarify what she said earlier, but I came off as if I was trying to DTR, to which she said that she had had fun these past few months, but that things had just moved really fast last time. I apologized, but she told me that it wasn't my fault and I had nothing to apologize for, before telling me that she was going up to bed, and asked me "Not to get offended".

Now, maybe I just wasn't in the right state to try grappling with this, but I spent a good half hour or so at a park just trying to figure out what she was saying and what I should do. I've been falling hard for this girl, but if she wants to call things off I can deal with that. If she just wants us to take things slower, I'm happy to do that, but right now I'm not sure what she wants and it's driving me up the walls.