I'm not afraid of rejection from women, but I am absolutely

Depends, are you looking for a woman to flirt with or a mate?

Fuck the shitty stuff, ask yourself what exactly you're looking for in a mate. Does she like vidagames? What kind of movies? Cock gobbling? How many all you can eat buffet challenges have they done?

Everyone loves to talk about themselves.

Just don't act like you're trying to impress this woman with how smooth you are. Act like you would with your friends. She needs to be your friend if you want things to last with meaningful conversation.

I bet you'd be pretty pissed to be on a date with a chick and her ask you 'SO WHATS NEW' instead of talking about her tits

Basically, just find out if she's worth a second date, whatever that means.

If you just wanna bang, you could probably talk about that. Even just in smalltalk terms.

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>Everyone loves to talk about themselves.
See I'm not sure how to get people to do that.
I can't create conversation out of movies because its just like
>Oh I really liked The Dark Knight!
>Yeah that was a great movie.
>.....
Like, what? Do I start discussing the filming techniques or some shit? Continuity errors? Plotholes?
I genuinely just try to get some kind of natural conversation going on dates but either i get nervous and basically shut down, or I can't seem to find a thread that is actual conversation and not just yes/no

And found that the easiest ways to keep a "conversation" going is just ask questions until a part of the convo reminds you of something, then butt in and talk about that something yourself.
Literally butt in, do not, I repeat, DO NOT let the conversation "end" before telling your part, do not wait until there's a break. Never.

If you do this, and there's a break in the conversation, it's THEIR fault and they'll know it and feel insecure just like you felt minutes ago. Because the conversation ended on their side, they'll feel like they own you something for not being capable of keeping it going.
And nothing is easier than to control someone who feels owns you something.

Are you psyching yourself out on what happens when she says yes and you worry that you'll fuck up? It's self fulfilling. Just ask her what she likes to do , hobbies, what her major was. Not that hard. 'So what's new' is the worst thing you could ask.

>yeah it was a great movie

It's a sign she doesn't want to talk about the movie if she's not gushing about the characters or whatever