Hey /adv/, quick one.
How does one casually slip into conversation that he's into the girls he's talking with? I mean how to do it smoothly, going for "I'M INTO YOU!" is just some foruth-grade shit and we're all to old for it
Start with just slipping small things in. Words like pretty and cute but don't put it on heavy and don't sperg out and wait for a response while staring at your Velcro shoes. .
Just show it with your body language and dont mention it verbally.
as a girl myself I'd say make it known from the start or don't get cut up about it if you get friendzoned.
if you want to tell her you're interested, make sure its kinda lowkey and it's not going be awkward if she's not into you.
like give her somewhere to go in conversation.
make jokes, teasing is good, and break the touch barrier. something as dumb as flicking away an imaginary speck or whatever if that's all you can do. when someone moves to touch you, you tend to instantly feel either "yes" or "no". maybe say something like 'you look great today' but nothing more deep and serious than that, you know? gesture for her to get close and tell her something like it's a secret only for her, maybe something a little 'naughty'. get a little closer than usual personal space, in general.
while you're doing this, pay attention to her. if she seems uncomfortable, stop what you're doing (without calling any attention to it, which will only make things more awkward) and don't do it anymore. if she is into it, she will reciprocate--touch you back, tease you back, smile and just, you know, be into it. be honest with yourself, you can tell if she's enjoying the attention or if you're making her uncomfortable.
you want to create a situation, an atmosphere, where things can progress from there, but which you can also *both* extricate yourselves from without too much trouble, embarassment, or awkwardness. so don't corner her, put her on the spot, bother her at work where she can't stop talking to you, etc. and then you won't make yourself so vulnerable that you feel shamed or humiliated if she's not into it. it's a win for everyone.
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What do you mean?
Again, how many? Difficult to convince people of genuine interest. Will you be copying and pasting the same generic bullshit for each one that you're apparently in to?