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Hey /adv/
So I'm a loser. I'm 27 and I'm a recovering NEET. I started getting my shit together about 4 years ago. I'm in great shape since I've been very consistent with bodybuilding and I'm finally doing great in school. I'm also working a part-time job on the weekends for pocket money.
Lately I've been getting a lot of attention from girls at my college and while this is great for my confidence, I don't feel as though I'm in a position in life to pursue. I'm in my late 20's and I'm degree-less with no stable income.
What do you think? Is it okay for me to pursue a relationship where I am in life right now? Honestly, aside from conversation, I don't have anything to offer (yet). Would some girl in her late teens/early 20's be okay with someone in their late 20's? I don't want to lie about my age or circumstances.
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If it were me, I'd hold off. I wouldn't feel too great with getting together with a girl in her early 20s especially if my mid 20s were squandered.
If it was someone a little older, I'd be much more at ease with it.
I think job or not, it doesn't really matter. There is nothing that stops her from breaking up with you or you her. A date and frankly, a relationship doesn't have to be a serious commitment. Have fun and congratulations, you've made it.
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Doesn't hurt to try?
What are you currently in school for? How much longer til you're done? How much will you be making once you complete your degree or what have you?
These are questions I know I'd want to know from someone who hasn't done much with their life but I know they're in school working towards something.
Although, you are having a lot of younger college chicks coming onto you. They're usually not looking for anything serious so they likely won't care if you're poor ayy eff.
>Doesn't hurt to try
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How do you even live?
I am 20 now and around a year ago a feeling that I miss out on life and girls and fun started haunting me, so I go out almost every day right now and looking forward to be very social at college. I dont even care about the degree as much as I care about the college experience.
And you say you are "not in the position to pursue girls"? What do you mean?
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It doesnt hurt to flirt, go on dates and having fun with girls, no need to pursue a commitment with ome. Heck, be selfish and have fun, you have earned it from all the time you took to get fit.
Just use protection, avoid redheads and drink moderately
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Thanks, friends.
My major is finance and I have 2 years left. I'll be graduating at age 30. I never considered that maybe they want companionship but nothing too long term or serious since they're young and don't know what they want yet. I guess it won't hurt to try as long as I remain detached.
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Don't rob the cradle, pedo
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