Hey /adv/
Long story short
I've liked this girl for almost a year now, we're not dating but she knows I like her and she says she likes me but she's not ready to date yet.
We've done couple like things, I.e. she's given me her first kiss, we've done foreplay, etc.
The problem is that, there's another guy that she knows likes her and she feels like she's led him on and would hurt either of us if she chose, so she's choosing not to date.
We still meet up and do couple things but right now, it feels like we're friends with benefits and she doesn't realize.
I love this girl to death and I just don't know what the outcome will be if I just keep waiting. Help?
>>17528754
>she says she likes me but she's not ready to date yet
>another guy that she knows likes her
It appears you and this guy are in the same position and she's waiting for some better candidate.
>>17528754
Get out while you can
>>17528754
She sounds dumb ( or at least a person who wants both her cakes)
The whole point of dating is to make a choice. You tell her you want a date or you're moving on. You gotta make the choice for her.
>>17529018
I can't imagine just
Moving on at this point.
I'm in too deep and I'm scared if I give her the choice she'll just move on without me and I'll be stuck in this rut.
>>17529185
Create some space away from her. Usually things move on quicker when you have someone new to be infatuated over. Try meeting new people and trying to get with them instead of someone who's playing you.
It seems like she's using your kindness but if she's really hesitating between you and him then just take care of him, destroy the concurrence I mean