/adv/ why is there so many cold hearted people out there? I never

>>17525635
A hard life turns a warm heart cold.

>>17525680
That doesn't explain why rich celebrities are cold irl. It also doesn't apply to some people I know who are very warm and loving probably because they have endured pain and suffering themselves in the past.

>>17525680
So basically what you mean is that the people that talk down on other people were once belittled before?


So basically we can't have faith in humanity right?

>>17525686
I saw Ryan Gosling at a grocery store in Los Angeles yesterday. I told him how cool it was to meet him in person, but I didn’t want to be a douche and bother him and ask him for photos or anything.

He said, “Oh, like you’re doing now?”

I was taken aback, and all I could say was “Huh?” but he kept cutting me off and going “huh? huh? huh?” and closing his hand shut in front of my face. I walked away and continued with my shopping, and I heard him chuckle as I walked off. When I came to pay for my stuff up front I saw him trying to walk out the doors with like fifteen Milky Ways in his hands without paying.

The girl at the counter was very nice about it and professional, and was like “Sir, you need to pay for those first.” At first he kept pretending to be tired and not hear her, but eventually turned back around and brought them to the counter.

When she took one of the bars and started scanning it multiple times, he stopped her and told her to scan them each individually “to prevent any electrical infetterence,” and then turned around and winked at me. I don’t even think that’s a word. After she scanned each bar and put them in a bag and started to say the price, he kept interrupting her by yawning really loudly.

>>17525686
It does. We can only truly know our own worldview and even that is far from reality. You can gain instances of perspective but being present and mindful constantly is impossible. Suffering is subjective. It's been found that a child with its teddy bear taken away feels the same pain as an adult losing a loved one.

>>17525694
b-b-but Ryan Gosling is my dream guy ;-;
how can he be like that?

>>17525694
>winked at me
I would be so wet at this moment

>>17525635
Cold people are only that way because other cold people have turned them. A bad person doesn't just "happen", they're created through a set of circumstances. Someone can become cold either through abuse or neglect, either in a physical or emotional way, or through a life where they've been too pampered and looked up to (see: celebrities)

>>17525781
So basically everyone will turn into a shitty human being over time?

>>17525781
So basically everyone will turn into a shitty human being over time? Got it.

>>17525803
If you don't take the time to make yourself a better person, yes.

Fucking false.

EVERY single good hearted person I know have had a rough life.
They value love far more than a "normal" person can, because they have experienced the opposite and can see the contrast.

>>17525911
Everyone has a rough life in some ways. I know tons of amazing and good people who have led average lives. Also tons of awful people because they were hurt or because they inherited the same genes that made their parents shit parents.

>>17525635
what happened?