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Help me /adv/,
I have a job that i love, but the environement is getting worse by the day. It's starting to really get to me. I'm losing appetite and i can't sleep anymore because of it. My bf suggested that i just give my two weeks notice and stay at home. I'm torn. We already live together and we plan to try and get pregnant starting next month. I actually wanted to keep working till the baby is here. But now i'm worried i'll stress myself out way too much if i stay and endure this crap whilst being pregnant. Financially, he'll be better off by the time we had plans to have the baby, so it would be a bit of a tight fit right now for me to stay at home. My bf has some savings and he said we could use that. I don't want him to spend all his savings, but it's so god damn tempting to be able to walk out on them and have a baby in peace. What should i do? Is it morally wrong to take on his offer?
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>>17521681
>I have a job that i love, but the environement is getting worse by the day
In porn industry ?
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>>17521687
What i meant to say is that i love the work i do but the interpersonal climate in the team is getting really bad. I work in education.
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>>17521689
Could you bring this up with your boss? If this issues is affecting you, it's possible it's affecting your co-workers as well. This is not an uncommon problem and different work places deal with this regularly.
However, if it seems like too much and your bf is on board with you staying at home, then there's nothing really wrong with it either. You might want to stay until you get pregnant and maybe until you start to get symptoms so that money won't be quite so tight, but it might be good for you and your baby if you take time off work. Keep in mind though that returning to work world after having a baby might not be exactly easy. Potential employers will ask why you didn't work and might get worried that you could quit and have another baby in similar manner.
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>>17521689
I don't know how much you need to talk to coworkers in education, but you aren't getting paid to make friends. Just keep your head down, your mouth shut, and work hard. That's what I do in my job.
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>>17521689
You will have a hard time finding a job where there isn't conflict between the workers, especially in female-dominated fields like teaching.
Can you describe some of the conflicts?
Are you involved in the conflicts?
Is the management aware of these conflicts?
Could you do anything to mitigate the conflicts?
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