I'm not usually nervous around girls. but this one I'm

>>17519825

>and I've really been with 9s, but she's maybe a 7.5

there's just something monstrously depressing about this whole outlook

Looks are important, I don't think it's superficial to care about looks and physical attraction. But it's just the fact that you're completely blindsided by feelings more complicated than "a number between 1 and 10." She's a person, right? You have conversations and spend time together and shit?

The number-rating system makes sense for places like 4chan, it makes sense when you're just looking at a still photo of a person you don't know. It's just weird to see people applying that system to their actual relationships

>>17519870
numbers only for effect

I've had a similar experience, nothing came out of it though. This girl was like moderately attractive (butterface) and my dick would get rock hard every time we I was just near her. I'd get uncomfortable around her for that reason, not like a feeling of nervousness though.

>>17519870
In real life there's only two numbers: 1 and 0 - would or would not.

>>17519825
This is not complementary to her though, backhanded I suppose. How you rate her physical appearance has nothing to do with whether she's a "keeper"

>>17519885

It just makes you sound like a douchebag. Is that the effect you were going for?

>>17519906
maybe you misunderstood.

the numbers was to say, I am not nervous over her looks. she has an effect over me. I'm really into her and it's not for her image.

>>17519917

But you literally said nothing about her except "she's maybe a 7.5" that's the only way you chose to describe her

So I don't know how she does it either, all you've told us is that she's exactly 1.5 degrees uglier than other girls you've dated

>>17519927
I basically told you *it's not image*

sorry maybe you missed it. leave it for the ones with experience.