I've been engaged for years, finally getting married in

The only other people who judge you for it are going to be people who know your marriage date but don't know how long you've been engaged for. They might think you got married because of the kid. I assume your families and friends all know you've been engaged a long time. So no one who matters is going to be able to judge you for it unless you conceive very early on. In which case rumors might be that the marriage only started because of that. Wait a month or two so the math won't work out if that's a concern. But really, talk to your partner. What matters is what you two want to do.

>>17519594
Everyone knows the engagement has been very long, since mid 2014.

I just wonder if people will think "jeez couldn't they just wait the extra 4 months"

I really don't think I can wait any longer

>>17519631
I doubt anyone who's close to either of you is going to be thinking that. It's the people who don't know you well that might, but really fuck them. They're not the ones who're going to matter.

>>17519645
Thanks

>>17519573
it might take longer than you think, anyway