How do I keep my self esteem up after a bunch of girls have rejected

>>17518810
either stop giving value to dates or step up your game, idk

Remember that your self-worth is determined by you, not by other people.

>>17518810
If you get rejected many times, then you're the problem. Change yourself for the better, obviously!

A request for a date is very impersonal and not really how normal people relationship work.
It's like the kid in the playground that tried making friends by walking up to random kids and asking "want to be friends?".

Unless you're in a club, own a sport car and have a pent house, stick to normal organic relationships.

>>17518864
What do you mean "normal organic relationships"?
I thought the standard normal thing is that after you know someone and think you have chemistry you ask them out...

>>17518858
I see, I'm not sure what to improve about myself though, besides getting a job because I'm currently unemployed (but my friends have got their girlfriends when they were unemployed too). Idk if I'm unattractive but at least a few people tell me I dress well. Maybe it's my personality but I can't really tell if I'm doing something wrong in that department.

>>17518831
this is good advice

>>17518831
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You gave them a chance to meet you. Their loss. Simple.

Relateable,OP. No one I know can find a reason that I dont have a gf. Meanwhile I see some serious shut-in faggot pulling girls everywhere. Although I will keep trying, ive come to the conclusion that most women just enjoy the relaxed vibe they get from me but dont want anything deeper. Ive come to the conclusion that some people, no matter how handsome, or funny, or intelligent, are destined to be truly alone.

Is there someone out there for everyone?
>No and if there is good luck finding them there are almost 7billion people on this rock in space.

Find a close circle of friends who know how to balance their friends with their relationships and keep trying. Someone is bound to say yes eventually.