My roommate and I are 25 year old women who live together alone

>>17517414
Tell her that you feel uncomfortable with felons in the house that you do not know.
Make sure that your friend is ALWAYS home when the felon is over, and keep your eye on him.

I find it weird that you're best friends with someone who seems to be totally different than you. A friend of a friend is usually trustworthy, right?

Consider giving her the benefit of the doubt, maybe that felon isn't so bad after all lol

>>17517414
I'd just tell your roommate "hey, you know that dudes a burglar, right?" and she'll be like "yeah, but he's cool now, blah blah blah" and she'll probably continue to be trashy.

I'd probably have a lot of fun with such a roommate, but as a straight edge you're in a tricky situation. Just roll with it, and put your foot down if it gets too bad. Keep some mace or a knife on you and keep your valuables hidden.

You half to walk the edge between knowing that it's unfair of her to make you feel uncomfortable in your own home, and knowing that it's unfair for you to assume that someone is dangerous because they're a thief. So keep your options open.

Never, and I mean NEVER allow drug dealers into your house

What are you, stupid?

Just because he's a drug dealer doesn't mean he's stupid, but the fact that he's a felon means that he'll happily look through your shit and notice anything of value

NEVER allow drug deals to go down where you love unless you like shitting where you eat too

Want some advice? Change a lock or two and tell your cunt of a roommate to buy shit outside of the house or at shops if it's only weed

>>17517456
>>17517464
thanks for your responses. my roommate has always been sort of a mess, but i've always been regarded as the 'responsible one.' i care for her and we grew up together so i guess even though we ended up different in terms of our habits, we care about each other a lot.

we had an issue earlier this year where i had to spend a few nights at my dad's house because she made some poor choices in a significant other who ended up going batshit insane and who she gave a copy of our house key to. (was stalking us, we had to call the cops, etc.) i sort of am beginning to question her judgement in people but realize that is an extra shitty thing to say. i mostly just want to finish this lease and move on to somewhere that she can stay if she needs to, but i don't need her to pay the bills in.

but still, i have the creeps.

also, i have renters insurance. any chance that if my things are stolen they will be covered by it? should i start taking pictures of the things i own?

>>17517474
maybe a little stupid, i guess. would it be a good idea to add a lock to my own door to my room or is that worthless desu?

>>17517414
>without appearing judgemental
what the fuck your roommate sounds like she's been around the block one too many times. There's only common sense in this situation, no judging involved

>>17517489
I understand that you care for your roommate, but I don't know why you wouldn't have locked your own door the moment she started bringing in strangers into your home

Yes it's a good idea, and move out ASAP unless you want to contribute to feel nervous about what she's doing. You don't have to coddle her either, tell her that she's fucking up and has been for a while, it's what a good person would do

>>17517414
Either move or get a lock on your door, but the whole situation sounds incredibly harmless.