Saturday I went with my gf camping.
We had a good time and all, then went back home (we don't live together) and ever since Saturday evening/night she acted cold towards me. First she didn't want to meet with me sunday and monday, her texts seemed forced even if she typed kisses and all that.
Today we'll meet.
How do I tackle this situation? How can I ask her what happened? She claims to be the type of person who always says if something's wrong, and she didn't say anything out of the ordinary.
Could it be that I'm thinking far too much about this and it's basically nothing?
>>17513382
Hey babe, I'm feeling like there's something wrong. Can you help me figure this out?
>>17513389
This, or something like this anyway.
You should talk to her like you will trust her. Don't accuse her or do anything of the sort. If anything, she'll be willing to open up to you as long as you lead her with a gentle hand.
Should be fine as long as you act like a human being, keep cool, think, and let her know that your love for her is strong through your composure in other words.
> t. tarantula wizard
>>17513389
This. She's your girlfriend. You can ask her if you think something is wrong.
>>17513389
+1 something along these lines
FUCKING COMMUNICATE!!!!
>>17513382
Next time you guys have sex just put it in her ass to surprise her with some sexual experimentation to spice up your relationship!
Op here
After rereading what we texted yesterday, I recognised that I was also acting distant towards her. Should I start by apologising?
It's already mid day and she hasn't responded to my good morning text yet.
I'm increasingly anxious guys. I want to talk to her about this.
>>17514044
Be calm and remind yourself that your head is an echo chamber- if you suspect bad shit, it will lead to you fantasising about bad shit, leading to more suspicions.
Don't send too many texts of verbal diarrhea and be patient. You will have to wait for real information from her.
If you really think you were being a bit cold, then it would be fine to tell her that.
>>17514208
I think I need to chill a little bit.
I'm meeting with her in like an hour or so and although everything seemed ok today, lots of kisses, "I miss you" and stuff, I still want to talk to her about the camping stuff. I still can't shake the feeling in my gut that she was a bit cold and distant after our camping trip, and my gut is usually right.
I want to be a gentleman and subtle about it, talk about it like adults not like teens.
How do I get her to talk about it? I was thinking more along the lines of:
>Baby I'm feeling like you were a little cold to me since Saturday. Did something happen? You know you can talk to me about anything.