>I'm pretty ugly, but I land a coffee date with this

>>17511574
Maybe it didn't feel like a real date for him. He might have high standards for what is considered a true date or something. I wouldn't read too much into it. Just go and have a good time.

>>17511574
Idk, maybe he didnt know if you thought it was a date. You could be short changing yourself OP.

>>17511574
coffee was like a pre-date
it's pretty low-stress and he was probably using it as an opportunity to see whether or not he was interested in a real date with you

but in any case why does it matter? he still wants to take you out on a date, so you're doing pretty well here

Sounds like he is trying to feel you out, and doesn't know if you considered meeting for coffee as a date or not.

Either that, or he was trying to figure out if you were fucking crazy or not with the coffee, and he has made up his mind.

>minigolf and dinner

Fuck yes OP. Literally my ideal date. If you don't go, I'll take those digits.

>>17511574
No offense but going to a movie isn't ever as good of a 1st or 2nd date as it sounds. You can't really talk or interact.

>>17511641
I'm assuming that is why he said "instead".

Why'd you preface with "no offense", when you didn't actually read the OP?

>>17511574
not odd at all. You going? Do you like him at all? He's probably excited to see you again but would be distressed to know you are not.

>>17511644
I did read the OP, I was explaining why his question might not be as odd as it sounds.

I said no offense because saying "your date idea sucks" is a little insensitive for an advice board.

>>17511667
Ah, I see.

And I agree, but saying no offense before something seems really passive aggressive as well.

>>17511574
>guy asks for second date
>op still makes this thread

who the fuck cares, he obviously thinks your good enough for him to hit you up to go on a date, fuckin whiner overthinker