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>Dating girl for 3 weeks now
>Impossible to make plans with her, she doesn't respond to texts/calls for like 5-6 hours on end, even when I get the "read" mark
>No idea what the fuck she is doing, because she isn't that busy
>Another girl wants to date me, pretty much always replies instantly, and is considerate when making plans with her
I like the first girl a LOT, but fuck she is a pain in the ass to get a hold of or do anything with. We're sort of in this weird stage where we are deciding whether or not to get 100% serious, but we just recently had sex.
Second girl is not as physically attractive, but honestly seems a lot sweeter, and I'd actually be able to do things with her.
Is it okay to dump girl 1, for girl 2, simply because she actually talks to me, and I can do shit with her?
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>Is it okay to go for a girl that is there for me?
That's how I read your post, man. Of fucking course you are justified in choosing a girl who actually puts in the effort.
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>>17504360
My dad always said "dont put in the time if she cant put in a dime"
Meaning if she cant give you ten minutes of her time, drop her.
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>>17504360
ddue girl 1 is a fucking flake drop her...spent too much time before with a girl like that and it's fucks with your head.
never settle either...if girl 2 isn't what your looking for in a girl (even looks-wise) don't settle because she is the only one who seems to pay attention. get more hobbies/interests network more and get out and find what you want its not gonna wander in through the door.unfortunately in all the million and millions of girls out there only 2 seem interested you may be kinda boring....currently.
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>>17504360
>Is it okay to dump girl 1, for girl 2, simply because she actually talks to me, and I can do shit with her?
Of course. Whatever you have going on with girl 1 is very one-sided. I can understand some people don't like phones/texting, because they're shy and/or awkward, but that doesn't mean you can make the other party responsible for interaction.
Get to know girl 2 before getting serious. If you don't find her attractive after you've spent some time with her, don't lead her on.
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I'm in a somewhat similar situation OP. I'm trying to get serious with a girl I've been friends with for a while but she's shit at replying and is honestly pretty busy sometimes.
I would get to know girl 2 a bit more first. You might like girl 1 a lot right now, but you have to wonder if it's really worth all the effort you put into something like communication. It's obviously one-sided and it shouldn't be
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