Another girl thread--I'll keep this brief:
She's a 5-6 year friend, though we've only hung out a few times. She once expressed feelings for me. I reciprocated (early high school), though chickened out of relationship due to stress/anxiety. That never soured friendship. Have went out together a few times since.
Since that early "breakup" I've watched her get into surprisingly committed relationships with dudes either way below her IQ or much older than her (7+ 9+, a teacher hookup*). *She confessed this to me via text.
I've always have lingering feelings for her. Haven't spoken to her in a few months--not for any reason, just been busy. I've wondered for a while now if trying to date her is worth it. Is her relationship track record a red flag?
Pic unrelated. I saw a TV commercial for the organization and couldn't help but laugh.
>>17503473
Also I plan on deleting this thread in an hour or two because my story is pretty specific and I have no idea if she's into 4chan.
>>17503473
All relationships come off as red flags if you look through the right lens. Unless there is something specific she has done, or something about these guys that was pretty significant, no. Age isn't all that big of a deal and for all you know these guys had something else amazing going for themselves
>>17503473
How many relationships?
Because "5-6 years" doesn't match with "surprisingly commited" and at least 4 dudes (that's the minimal number i assumed) plus you.
>>17503510
4-5, I think. By committed I meant intense.
>>17503521
Well, more info is needed but i guess she either chooses poorly or gets bored fast or both.
Thanks all. Got what I needed. Posting via mobile and can't delete post for some reason: "Something went wrong"
If a mod sees this please delete -OP