Weird situation with current GF (dating for 3 months, she 24

>>17502493
The father is probably being overprotective because he's just lost his wife. Or maybe it's just the way he is.
Have you tried bonding with him? Maybe you should, it would make your life so much easier since your gf is living at home.

>>17502493
Everyone goes through spells when life overwhelms them and they need some space. Don't read too much into this.

Use the phone for what it's for - actually talk to her, using your mouth and voice. Say you hope she's getting through this period with her father as best she can, and that you're there for her anytime she wants you. And then give her some space3.

>>17502506

Not yet. I met him once, briefly intruduced myself and he left (he had some work to do). I did not have many chances to bond with her family, due to the fact that usually visits me and I have been there once. Whenever I am proposing that I will visit her, she asks me not to.

>>17502518
Been through a lot of such discussions with her. She said I was the only one near her when her mother died. What worries me are past 2 weeks and her being strange this morning.

OP here.
I think that now my main question is should I initiate contact today/tomorrow and ask how are things with her fatehr? Or should I wait for her?

Generally we both do not have any problems with writing first, we are quite open and sincere and are not afraid about discussing our problems.

>>17502597
The best thing you can do right now OP is keep your distance.

Woman are fucking tricky. If you try and fix it she will end up dipping. You have to be the alpha here and let her come to you. Either she will or she won't... but reaching out will ultimately end up with her not coming back.

>>17502618
We have not broke up yet. Yesterday we had amazing time, today she is acting weird.

>>17502633
I'm telling you dude... if she is already questioning the relationship you need to just take a step back.

I guarantee you need to just sit still and start not giving a fuck about what happens. Just wait her out man.

>>17502644
She was afraid of commitment, however she mentioned that she would like to. After about a week and few talks over phone she started to act normally - talking, flirting etc. And yesterday when we met, it was like nothing happend,

>>17502493
>Two weeks ago she was thinking about breaking up, being afraid to commit, but wanting something more

Sounds like she wants to go on your typical dick hopping-pump&dump action.
Red flag famalam

>>17502644
She was afraid of commitment, however she mentioned that she would like to. After about a week and few talks over phone she started to act normally - talking, flirting etc. And yesterday when we met, it was like nothing happend,

>>17502755
You mean she was nice and sweet yesterday and had great sex with me just to break up?
Seems strange because we already starteed making plans for the next weekend.

>>17502776
Dude.

Quite trying to figure out how she feels. Just distance yourself from her. If she wants you in her life she will reach out.

seriously, stop analyzing this.