I love my girlfriend. We've been together for 3 years and

Ur a cunt , break up with her and let her find a man who wants her in every way

>>17502270
just cheat on her. thinking cheating is something you shouldnt do is just a imposed moral opinion and has no reason behind it. just make sure she doesnt find out

>>17502440

This. Put some thought into your plan, don't let the bitch get attached, and you'll be fine.

Keep in mind that it "scratches the itch" while you're cheating, but it doesn't solve your desires. You'll want to keep cheating once you've stopped. You just have to make the resolution you actually stop after you've proposed to her or whatever.

If a girl came on here saying that she really really loved her boyfriend but didn't enjoy sex anymore because he was old news and she was craving strange dick, what would you tell her?

It's pretty obvious, you're not ready to be in a relationship. If she's such a great girl she deserves a guy who will make her feel like that and not someone who is bound to fuck around on her and consumed with desire to get someone "fresh". Breaking her heart will hurt but she will survive. It's better than the alternative.

Leave her, she deserves someone better

>>17502440
The issue with cheating is not that it is inherently wrong on absolute moral grounds, but that it is bound to really hurt your partner. Even if she never finds out, you both are a dishonest partner and you willingly took the risk to shatter her happiness and self esteem so you could have sex with someone who's not her. It is perfectly reasonable to look down on that.

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>>17502458
>hurr durr muh double standards
Would you stop shitting up the board already?

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Most likely scenario:

Your girl isn't as perfect as she seems and you're romanticizing your first real relationship like everyone does. You have a good thing going, but it's probably not as good as you think. You want to fuck other girls because you notice the attention you get from girls while you have a girlfriend. What you don't know, is that when you're single and thirsty all that attention will vanish. Paradoxical I know. You probably won't even believe me, but eventually you'll see I was right, if you break up with your girlfriend.

However, if she is as good as you say she is, fucking random hoes will only be gratifying for adding notches to your belt. Sex with strangers/acquaintences can never hold a candle to passionate intimate love making. So if she really is all that, stick around. But regardless of what I or anyone else says you're going to do whatever you want anyway, because that's just how young men are. That's also okay, it's how we learn. Good luck.

>>17502462
>It's wrong because your partner might have a glass ego
Why is that everyone else's problem? Is it wrong to eat a Hawaiian pizza when your partner only likes pepperoni?

posts like this make me kind of sick of this generation and hope that something horrible happens to this weak, self-centered world.

>>17502463
I didn't imply it was a double standard, I don't think male cheating is condoned. I just wanted to make clear that OP's situation looks pretty hopeless to an outsider, and obviously for men it's typically easier to relate to the impact of cheating if it's a man instead of a woman who gets cheated on.

>>17502471
Because the people who would be hurt if their partner cheated on them outnumber the people who would not care.

>>17502465
>Sex with strangers/acquaintences can never hold a candle to passionate intimate love making.
Yeah, a girl who thinks sex is a weekly chore is SO much better than some tramp who will dress up for you without being asked and calls you "daddy".

>>17502489
Are you OP? You guys are only banging 1x/week?

>>17502486
and they get hurt because monogamous relationships are expected by default because of the judeo-christian morality that still is prevailing in society. its essentially her problem that she cant let go of societal norms and not be a conformist and not get hurt

>>17502933
Look, logic doesn't get you very far in relationships. Logically it should not be a big deal to not want sex a couple of times (just to name something) in a row, or to be a bit more distant, if you are otherwise loving and reassuring.
Guess what, emotions don't care. People get angry and sad over things that are technically not worth the energy and saying that technically they're not worth it doesn't make anything better. When you want to make someone happy, their emotions are important, period. And of course some people have exceptionally unrealistic or irrational expectations, and you can argue or break up over that. But wanting exclusivity is a completely common and normal human desire, and saying that it was an artificial source matters little for that. In case it escapes you, the far far majority of people can't "let go" of societal norms and rightfully so. If people did not fear the judgment of others and being isolated, societies wouldn't have developed as far and been as relatively peaceful as they are. So it seems detached from reality and weird to me to blame a single individual for being influenced by this cultural context they grew up in.

More practically, if you want a relationship that's not exclusive, you are deviating from the default form of a relationship. The onus is on you to sell someone else on that idea or find someone who feels the same way. Agreeing to someone's face about being on board with the relationship that they want, only to act the exact opposite behind their back, is betraying them. That has nothing to do with whether or not monogamous relationships are the superior ones.

>>17502975
Sage insight man, best post on adv this month?

Hey OP, this was exactly my situation. We also loved eachother very much and depended on each other. We were also together about 3 years. I was 17 and she was 19 when we were entering the relationship. I also came very close to cheating few times and I used to fall in love quite much. But I couldn't think of a life without her. Neither could she (ar least that's what she said). Then the time came when I needed to leave to work and after my work is done for this summer I'm going outside of the country. We planned to have a distance relationship because she still goes to college, and then she would also move out and come work in germany with me. But she changed her mind and decided to stay. We broke up, and she was with another guy in about a month. She also told me that even if I stayed we would brake up because she thinks that we didn't have what we should had. Talk to her honestly and see how she feels. Then decide. It will be hard, but it's better if you live your life a little bit while you are young.

I've seen this thread a thousand times and every time the people who break up because they wanted to try more pussy end up being unhappy in the end.

They talk about how they break up with their girls so they can experience sex with girls of different ethnicities or try threesomes or whatever the fuck they're into. In the end they almost always say it wasn't worth losing the first girl.

>>17502270
Leave her, she deserves someone better. You're fucking pathetic. Go find some hooker to finger your asshole.

>>17502822
>only
If you have been with someone for 3 years, once a week is a pretty good deal.

>>17502270
Monogamous Relationships that go longer then half a year are unnatural and for people who are too afraid to be confronted with themselves. Let lose anon, live your life. you are basically an addict at this point a walking corpse

>>17503515
>Monogamous Relationships that go longer then half a year are unnatural
Nope.

>>17503526
>Nope.
Yes

>Monogamous Relationships that go longer then half a year are unnatural
lol what the fuck
so basically people dont grow up with two parents

>>17503588
They Do but those couples are rarely in a fulfilling relationship

>>17503599
Half a year is less time than it takes to GESTATE AND GIVE BIRTH TO A BABY.

I don't even have to bring in sources here, dude, the fact that (most) men feel instinctive parental love for their children is enough to refute that. If relationships were only supposed to last like 6 months max then that wouldn't be a thing.

Gotta agree that you sound like a real jackass son. If you're going to come on here and look for affirmation from degenerates talking about "it's just muh societal norms" then you're a dipshit.

Don't cheat on her. If you want to fuck someone else, end it entirely.

>>17503619
men also feel the instinctive urge to fuck other women on the side, so what about that?

>>17503633
What exactly is your point? Long-term monogamy is natural. So is infidelity. So, for that matter, are serial monogamy and casual, unattached promiscuity. Something being *natural* doesn't mean it's *universal.* All of those behaviors are natural, none are universal and a given person might have a tendency towards one or another.

>>17502270
Why don't you propose a threesome or something?

>>17503633
>men wanting to fuck other women is human nature
>monogamy is unnatural

so is the computer you're on and the clothes you're wearing and the food you're eating.

if you wanna go live like a caveman and fuck 10 wives go for it, but if you can control your urges to rape, murder, and crap in a hole in the woods then you can control your urge to cheat.

we've moved past what we're "designed" to do

>>17502270
Say you want multiple wives.

Are you man enough to accept the challenge?

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>>17503393
Broke up with my gf a few months ago in part to do this
It was awesome, slept around for a bit, had some sweet experiences, learned a lot about myself, and about dating, then met someone amazing, and am starting something more serious with her now, with my urge to try those new things kind of gone.

I'm really glad I ended things with my ex, it can totally turn out well

>>17502465
This!
Fucken universe and irrational & illogical bullshit!
Ffffffaaaaaaaaaaaakkkkk!!!!!!

>>17502465
This!
Fucken universe and irrational & illogical bullshit!
fuck u life

>>17502489
>Yeah, a girl who thinks sex is a weekly chore is SO much better than some tramp who will dress up for you without being asked and calls you "daddy".
Did you settle or something?

>>17503399
It's about average.

I can't believe assholes like you get amazing chicks. Fuck you and your shit, dickless.

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>>17502270
tl;dr I did it and it was great but I think she is falling in love with me

Same story here and something happened the last week:

I have a gf (wife material) for 2 years now and really everything is great except for my urge for fresh pussy.

I was on a party, clubbing, to cheer up a good friend who came to visit me because he is heartbroken. We drank some beers, had some mens conversation and then we went to look for a club. I get chatty after a few beers, so I just chatted up random girls to get one for him. There I met this South Korean/Japanese mixed girl, she was alone at the club, and it like worked instantly, but for me, not for my friend. Somehow I have success at clubs every time I go, but only since I have a girlfriend. I got so much energy for pussy when I am drunk.

20 min later she was kissing me (when my friend was on the toilet) and I just let it happen, because it felt nice and exciting. Like success and I never managed to score so quickly before. We had a great night. At the end, we all exchanged numbers and she texted and sexted me a couple of days later that she wants to meet me outside in the fields and that she´s got weed for us and that she has fantasies about me.

I was really really feeling bad for my gf and for what i was doing but at the same time it made my dick so hard. So after work I told my gf that I am meeting a colleague for a beer and went to see her instead. We went to the fields and lit up a joint. After it, it just happend and we fucked like animals outside, it was like in a porno, I fucked her in all positions and she was moaning like crazy. I fucked her 4 times this day and she came around 10 times and squirted, like everything. Next day I fucked her 3 times but I fear that she is getting attached because we saw a shooting star together and she started talking about stuff like she can see my deep soul in my eyes and about how special seeing shooting stars with me is for her.

I cont later, too many characters

>>17505373
cont when?

>>17505430

I am on mobile now, so i won't type long texts, sorry. But will answer questions if you have any.

>>17502975
Fucking thank you. I've been seeing that guy post here for a while.

>>17502471
>compares preference in foodprocessor to cheating

You sound like a real piece of shit dude

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>>17503515

>>17505514
Well, basically what happened later? How did it all turn out? Did she fall in love with you, did you break up your old relationship or what?

Curious.

What do you do if you have cheated?

Let's say no one knows and there I'd no way of anyone knowing, what do you do just try and erase it from your memory?

Can a relationship still be happy?

>>17505514
Yeah, what the fuck is wrong wiith you? Dump your girlfriend, you walking talking sebaceous gland.

OP, don't cheat on your girlfriend, but don't stay with her either. Man up, dump her, and go get yourself some strange. You're young, enjoy it. But don't intentionally be a dick.

There's so many guys on this site who get all emotional and angsty when someone finds out they're into someone else or wants to dump their boring girlfriend for someone, and always say "you'll regret it." They're likely guys who have never had a girlfriend or have had to desperately cling to the same girl because they'll never get one again.

Go live life.

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>>17502270
Break it off you dumb nigger. Break your dick off in some puuuusssy!

No but seriously end the fuckin relationship and keep your hopes high.

Bitch

>>17502975
Fuck, this is pretty sensible

>>17502270
What you are experiencing is called Fear Of Missing Out, or FOMO for short. It is the common mental plague of this day and age: marketers cultivate it, because it makes selling shot to people a lot easier.

It is also bullshit. You need to dismiss it as such. This takes time, but is a fairly simple process: whenever you feel it rising, you say to yourself, "No, this is bullshit" and move on with whatever you were doing beforehand. Do it repeatedly if you must. It can take a few months before it becomes habitual, but once that occurs, you will find that it improves thungs in all sorts of ways.