Met this girl, got her number, we're supposed to go out.

She is not her fucking facebook profile!
Talk to her, go on a date, get to know each other. You're overthinking this.

>>17502056
>She is not her fucking facebook profile!
I don't have a Facebook, so I'll admit I don't know exactly how it works, but I was under the impression that Facebook profiles were created by the person and not randomly generated or assigned.

>what should i do

stop being a retard, for starters.

if you want to get to know her, talk to her, don't stalk her on facebook. That's the problem with you millennials, you gotta look up everything instead of just trying it out for yourself.

maybe hang out for like 5 minutes and if you still aren't impressed, then you can leave it. but facebook doesn't mean jack shit

>>17502067
>That's the problem with you millennials
Nigger, I'm 31. If I'm considered a millennial, then I'm almost certain you are too.

While I'm opening up this grab bag of crazy and retardation, I may as well post the other thing that's bothering me: why is she even agreeing to go out at all? I feel a bit Groucho Marx about it; reluctant to go out with whatever weirdo would have me. Like I said, I'm in my 30s, and in that time I have been in two relationships: once while in high school that lasted almost all of my senior year, and then once when I was 27, with a girl who only dated me because she knew nobody else would want to.

Incidentally, it makes me feel so great to be asking relationship advice from a board composed almost entirely of people between the ages of 14-21.

>>17502063
90% of the things written on those profiles are utter garbage. It's only purpose it attention whoring.
To conclude anything about the character of a person from one of those profiles, is simply retarded.

>>17502075
You asked for advice here. Take it or leave it!

>>17502082
I did ask for advice. I guess what I'm really looking for is an opportunity to redo the last fifteen years.

>>17502104
I know how hard it is to look back and not be pleased with what you see.
But it's more important to focus on the present, because that's the only thing you can change.

>>17502127
In a lot of ways, the present is defined by the past, though.

I know I'm overthinking it, since it's just one date, but the goal or at least the hope is that it will lead to something else, isn't it?

I don't know how to be a boyfriend/partner/etc. The last girl I dated was only with me because she had issues with sex; issues that ruined her other relationships, and she was only with me because she knew that potentially not having sex wouldn't be a dealbreaker for me, since it's not like anyone else would want to date me. As soon as she got over her sexual hangups, she cheated on me with her coworker and dumped me. It's hard not to take a lesson from that.

This thread is very quickly spiraling out of control. I apologize. I get morose when I've been drinking.

>>17502160
>the goal or at least the hope is that it will lead to something else, isn't it?

No, not necessarily. It took me a whole lot time to understand this, but dating / going out is about having fun, doing something with a (potentially) interesting person, getting to know each other and be curious about what the other person has to say. If you two are fine with each others presence, then you can look further, but it's absolutely ok to not want to see this person again (and often times, this will be the case).