I lost a ton of weight and all of a sudden, women find me desirable. People look me in the eyes. I'm struggling to deal with people looking at me, I'm used to being invisible.
How do I stop being a sperg and start being alpha?
>>17499771
>how do I start being an alpha
people are born alpha and born beta. It's not something you can lift your way into. But if you want to make a solid effort start with getting off this website.
>>17499771
you just keep trying to look em back in the eyes. then you get used to it.
>>17499787
>>17499779
I'm attempting to adopt a persona. Like a mask for my personality. I find that it helps massively with looking people in the eyes.
>>17499796
i find eye colours really interesting, so i always look for the eye colour of whom i talk to (no staring of course).
turns out it really helps with looking people in the eyes