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The girl I secretly love gave me a pretty fucking obvious hint that she wanted me to ask her out, like, "we should go out some Sunday to this theater" and since we talked little to nothing before the conversation that lead into this... I thought to myself "well shit this is way too fast, I will lose her if I ask her out immediatly" and answered something on the lines of "I will count on that for some Sunday!"
That situation happened this Monday.
The next day I immediatly googled what we could see that Sunday and proposed it. She liked the idea but a series of events made it impossible for me to ask her out that day.
I waited for Wednesday, Thursday I couldn't see her, and now, tomorrow is Friday and I still haven't asked her out.
Is this lost forever? The problem that I'm having is that I don't want to ask out of nowhere, I want to chit chat a little, and as I said we don't talk that much, so I can't get to the point where I ask her out.
Help me /adv/.
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You should ask right now. Expect her to say no, because you need to give girls more lead time for a date, but it is not a rejection of you.
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>>17496760
"Hey hows it going. Hows work/school?"
"There's a show on x night. Wanna go?"
Stop overthinking shit in the future. Fucking sage.
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>>17496760
>, I will lose her if I ask her out immediatly"
I hope you know that makes zero sense
You could just text her and get to the point. If she likes you, she won't flake or deny. If she wants to but is busy, you can always do it next weekend w/ her
Ideally, small talk w/ her and ask her directly. Or ask her sometime next week if you can't see her now.
>>17496772
>Wanna go?
Basically what anon said stop overthinking. Is she said we should go to [x], she may like you
But you never want to say "Wanna go?"
Say "We should go to [x]. You free?" Simple and certain. You can't ask a girl out in the form of a question. You make a comment about what you should do together and ask her if she's free
You shouldn't even be going to the movies anyways. That's what friends do
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>>17496760
>girl I secretly love
Oh yeah, tone down on that word. You'll become desperate. You can't love a girl you haven't even been out with
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There's no need or reason to small talk or chit chat first. Just ask.
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Holy fuck she said yes.
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>>17496972
No shit
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Thanks, I love you guys.
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>>17496760
Don't wait around! She will probably think you've lost interest! I would share some small talk with her first then ask her out.
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