How do I convince my girlfriend not to join a sorority because I know it'll ruin her? We've been dating a year, and she's strictly anti-"typical sorority" girl. More "bohemian" than anything else really. I know it'll completely fuck her up, but she's insisting that she's joining just because it'll look good on her resume. Keep in mind this is at a university in the southern United States.
What do you mean "it'll ruin her"?
>>17494056
It will look good on a resume and it will change her but doubt it will ruin her. There's all kinds
>>17494056
dont try to hold others back so they will stay in a relationship with you.
improve yourself instead.
if she just wants to be around other guys, maybe you should move on.
>>17494061
https://vimeo.com/147767325
>>17494056
In my humble experience, extremely tiny school, every single girl who was a "fucked up", snotty, obnoxious, ignorant, whatever you want to call it, was that way before they entered into the sorority. I also have many friends who joined both fraternities and sororities who were cool people from beginning to end. And i even had one friend who was in a sorority but never hung out with any sisters nor went to any events but stayed in nonetheless because of how good it looks on an application.