Hey guys, so I've got this pretty good friend that I've

>>17492439
>Plan another hangout with the boys
>Again, a week in advance
>B doesn't show up again
>Toward the end of our get-together, he message the group
>"Guys wtf you're hanging out?"
>"Where are you guys?"
>Tell him name of the donut shop we ended up at.
>"Dude I can't find it send me the address"
>Tell him to google DONUT SHOP NAME in CITY NAME
>"Dude I can't"
>Send him my location, I'm on Android, and he's on iPhone so it's a bit of a hassle
>He shows up, we hang for like 10 minutes then bounce

So at this point I'm starting feel like he's putting in significantly less effort into this friendship with myself and the group than the rest of us are.

>One day ask B via Facebook Messenger why he takes so long to respond back on GroupMe
>"Oh lol I muted the GroupMe when I was working out. I guess I forgot to unmute."

This certainly raised an eyebrow on my end.

>>17492440
>Another friend is about to leave our state for Texas because he got into a uni there.
>Decide to get a gift for him and have the rest of us sign it with some corny message or something as a going away present
>Start another group in GroupMe with everyone minus Texas guy
>Plan a bunch of meetings to give everyone the chance to sign the present
>I'm not sure if B has unmuted GroupMe, so I seperately message him over both Facebook Messenger so he actually gets a notification
>Propose a meetup date
>The day before the proposed date, I message him to make sure.
>He responds
>"Oh dude I've got family stuff going on, my grandma's going off the rails with dementia so we're going to her house on the day you suggested so we can find her a house"
>Feel sad af for him
>The next day --the proposed date-- I see a snap on his story of him in his house, rather than his grandma's.

>>17492444
>Propose another date for him to sign the ball, at this point Texas guy is about to leave.
>B actually responds punctually, and says he'll make it
>Date rolls around
>Send him a reminder
>He doesn't show up
>I message him asking him where the fuck he is
>"Oh sorry dude I'm on vacation in Georgia."
>What
>Ask him why he didn't tell me.
>"lol I forgot and I turned off mobile data for Messenger because I'm at the end of the month and my data plan's almost out"
>I'm fairly certain that Messenger uses literally kilobytes of data but whatever.
>Ask him the size of his data plan and what he uses data for instead
>"5 GB individual. Pokemon Go and Pandora"
>Ask him what his data plan is and how he utilizes it.
>"Pokemon Go and Pandora"
>Get frustrated and just tell him to tell me what he would write on the present, and I write/sign his name in his stead.

Maybe I'm reading too far into this, but I get the message that he values music and mobile """games""" than he does our friendship.

>>17492448
>He tells me that he's up to come to my apartment and just chill after he gets back from Georgia
>So fast forward to about two weeks ago from today
>B's been in Georgia for about a week now
>Ask him when he's getting back
>"lol dude idk"
>Tell him to ask his parents
>"ok"
>Ask him a few days later when he's getting back
>"lol dude idk"
>Ask him why he never knows when his important shit is going to happen.
>Also tell him that as the guy who plans get-togethers for our group, he's making it a pain in the ass for me
>"Dude even if I know the date, it's not going to make a difference, it's going to happen anyway"
>I'm not sure why he's putting up this fatalist bullshit but whatever
>Fast forward to yesterday, I ask him again when he gets back
>He still hasn't responded.

Also B does this fucking stupid shit where everytime he sends messages, he laces them with the same phrases over and over (ebin maymays from Bodybuilding.com's forums I think), so imagine that every time he messaged me back in the all previous posts, he inundated them with "NSI," "CANT TELL IF," "TFW," "WAT DO".
He acts p gay even though he's legit one of the anti-gay people I know, he insists on spelling "come" as "cum" for whatever reason.

Anyway, he's just been pissing me off lately. I'm not about the burn this bridge just yet, but it's starting to look pretty damn flammable.

What do you guys think, am I just overanalyzing and being a faggot?

Nahh i think youre right, what you should do is give him space and tell him to fick off politely and maybe wait for him to make plans, and dont bother inviting him anymore