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Moved to new state/town after a divorce. 30. going back to school in the fall.
how do i meet new people? my last two relationships each lasted 5+ years and i pretty much moved to be with each woman in a new place/state and befriended her friends, etc.
now in new town and dont really know anybody. hoping to meet people once school starts.
met a couple girls off okcupid but they are totally unacceptable, even the 'best' girls on there seem unacceptably crazy/flawed. I am really just looking to make new friends, but none of these people even seem stable enough to give my real name to, etc. have never even bothered with tinder because i believe itd be worse/more of the same?
so how do I meet new people? D: havent had to since I was a teenager.
met my last 2 long term relationships off the internet via games and chat rooms. but now normies took over the internet, what do?
any advice is welcome thanks.
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The people you're attracted to- what hobby would they enjoy?
Get into thay hobby.
Work at being positive and approachable.
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>>17490886
Some people think it's pathetic, which i don't understand, but I would think wearing clothing that advertises your interests would be a good idea. Like it's so fucking easy to start a conversation with someone wearing a One-Punch man shirt, or a shirt of a certain band (usually if it's not a target shirt or some shit) or video game shirts. I don't know I feel like i'm pretty unapproachable for some reason
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>>17491105
im into biking, hiking, kayaking, video games, target shooting, and I read alot, but i do most of these things alone.
>>17491169
i literally put away all my band, vidya, and ironic shirt and mostly wear plain black shirts because i got TIRED of people making conversation about them.... lol D:
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>>17491197
>got TIRED of people making conversation about them
what the fuck are you looking for? You sound like you already know what to do
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>>17491209
menial small talk about my t-shirts in stores and out and about never seems to lead anywhere lol
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>>17491249
I thought you were going to a school, join a club or something
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>>17491262
>I thought you were going to a school, join a club or something
i want to do just that, but nothing really starts up till September
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>>17491197
No offense anon, but the question was what hobbies is your dating pool in to. You sound /fit/, you might try picking up ultimate frisbee and go to puck up games at the intramural fields at your new university/public park. Or anything else social and active, just don't be a tryhard
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>>17491346
when i go out to be active i usually go to uncrowded places to ride my bike or walk and explore. i am more comfortable lost in a park than surrounded by a crowd at an event, etc.
i would like to meet people to do low-key stuff with in small groups of 2-3-4 people. how do i find that? D:
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>>17491373
Sometimes you have to get a little uncomfortable. Groups of 2-3-4 people will be a group of established friends, you aren't there yet. Be social, meet people, make friends. Starting over at square one at thirty isn't easy (trust me, I know).
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