Has anyone experienced a person saying "it's you, not

Is he your boyfriend now? Just break up, jesus.
You`re not special.

>>17488226
Is your name Sophia?

>>17488226

I've said it, and meant it. I wanted a girlfriend REALLY bad. It had been a while since I was in a relationship, and I just fell in love with the idea of being in love.

This girl told me everything about her, and was just super comfortable with me. But I began to realize that I didn't feel the same way about her that she did about me. There wasn't anything I could do to fix it. And I felt like shit for saying all of the right things to her, when I gave up on it so quickly.

I feel bad for her, but I was lying to myself and to her.

>>17488290
Very similar to what happened to me. As for being special: I know I'm not. It's just that I am not so devastated as I am done with my life in general. I have a plan (not being over dramatic) to end it all by December 21st. I'm at ease with this. No one knows and I won't give anyone that benefit of knowing.

I was totally lying to myself. In fact, I never wanted a relationship especially with a guy I didn't find attractive. At this point, though, I don't find anyone attractive enough (personality and look-wise) to be in a relationship. People who don't show respect aren't unique, especially for people who are in tech and business. Their heads are up their asses so much it's insane, and he obviously was. He thought he was being kind, but in reality I could tell he never had real mental strength in his life.

My mental strength is sparse now. I'm only strong for people, but for me? I couldn't care less. I'm ranting at this point. Good riddance.

>>17488290
What's your initials?

>>17488226
Are you sure you're not being gaslit? Because from what you've written here, it sounds like he might be gaslighting you. I see no indication of you being clingy.

I told my gf it was her after she dumped me while I was trying to talk about and improve our relationship.
I was always treated like bottom priority, to the point of not even telling me she'd cancelled our only chance to meet up that week to hang with a friend from work. When she dumped me out if the blue I full on told her that it was her, and not me.

you are a dumb underaged wanabe whore
kill yourself

>>17488226

When someone says that it is definately you

Just a 'gentle' way of saying it

>>17488226
>Dating chick back in high school
>Always got really close when I was hanging out with her sister (how we met)
>Her sister hooks us up
>Goes good for a month and or so, everything is about the same as before
>Suddenly pulls a 180 and stops talking to me for a few days
>Call her and ask if she was busy or if she was ignoring me
>"Everytime you're around I just want you to go away."
>Don't know how to feel about this so hang up and pretend like we never dated
>Everytime I go to her house to hang out with her sister she's still wanting to be all up on my dick

I still let her but I would treat her as shitty as she made me feel that day.