So I just came from the club piss drunk, it's 4 am in Europe.
I didn't pull any girls while my buddy did and danced with one the whole night.
I was in a bad state tonight and I couldn't handle the fear of rejection. Basically I wished I was home.
While I saw many girls were eying me - whenever I post on /soc/ they call me good looking, so I think my looks aren't an obstacle - when I danced I couldn't maintain meaningful eye contact, like you know, nonverbally inviting a giirl to dance. I just can't. When they looked in my eyes they probably saw the nothingness of my soul. I couldn't handle the fear of rejection. I only I initiated a dance once, when I grabbed her hands and danced, rather awkwardly - my buddy said I hadn't been building rapport with her a d just kinda randomly tried to dance with her.
I just cracked tonight. Is there even any advice that could help me?
>>17488194
yeah, get some rest.
>When they looked in my eyes they probably saw the nothingness of my soul
unlikely
>I only I initiated a dance once, when I grabbed her hands and danced, rather awkwardly - my buddy said I hadn't been building rapport with her a d just kinda randomly tried to dance with her.
Your friend has a point. Have you tried, you know, *talking* to people? I know it's loud in clubs but even a couple "how are you" "what?" "what?" shouts are better than nothing
Also, don't bother trying to meet girls when you go out. Just dance and have a good time on your own, and if something happens, it happens. You don't want the girls you meet at clubs anyway
>>17488227
You do have a point, I think I was in too low of a pit tonight to genuinely connect with people, though I did meet some guys and it was kind offun.
I'm literally an English student and like 70℅ percent of the club was foreign tonight (I live in Poland), but I couldn't capitalise on it, feels bad man.
Also should I just not mind my own potential awkwardness while talking to those people? From what I saw it was all preceded by the omnipotent eye contact while dancing - only then the talk commenced. Perhaps I need more time to figure this all out, and practice - this is just my 3rd visit to a club this year, all in the last month.
I kinda try to get laid as I'm a 22 yo virgin.
I know this is a bad mindset, but the pressure is bad. I feel extremely abnormal with my state of sexual and social inexperience.
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>>17488276
>nie móc wyrwać loszki w klubie w Polsce
Anon proszę
>>17489062
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