Is it fun at all in the beginning to have a clingy girlfriend?

I don't see how it can work.

It just begins getting annoying and you'll want none of that shit after a while.

>>17484449
You've experienced this? I'm talking about in the beginning, if you just both feed off each other's attention, could that end horribly?

Also if you have no feelings for her but insist on keeping it going, when you finally break up she could point a knife in your direction. Just giving you a heads up bro.

>>17484462
Yeah, I've thought about that, but I need to know how it feels to be given attention. At least once. It might just make me not want it again and I'll get it out of my system, right?

Think about all the favorite things you do with your free time, and think about someone interrupting them/lecturing you constantly about them because you aren't entertaining them every second of the day.

Anything you do by yourself or with friends will be seen as you abandoning them.

Literal prison.

>>17484468
Yeah this.

However there's a point where you accept it and actually start to like it more then whatever your doing. Then when it's gone you feel like you need attention all the time.

That's fucking prison.

>>17484492
>>17484468
Which one is the least worst prison though?

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>>17484441

It only works if you're the kind of person that requires constant attention to validate your self worth and even then, it doesn't really "work", its just a symbiotically toxic relationship.

For the most part, its a novelty that quickly wears out.

Attention, like every other emotion, must be regulated and kept in context to maintain healthy relationships. Using attention as a replacement for self-esteem is inherently dysfunctional.

>>17484492
Holy shit man, thank you for posting this. My gf was very clingy for the first 12 months of our relationship, and I always tried to find time for myself, now I feel clingy cause I Wana see her all the time. Is there any reversing this? Idk what happened, it's like one day I just started to love seeing her 24/7, but I never knew why that change happened.