How do I not be a complicated, whiny, awkward asshole and have more charisma
>>17481781
>dont think
there you go
Never talk about yourself or your experiences unless directly asked. Never show any affect except cheerful amusement. If the situation is really bad, change social circles. Whatever you do don't try to be "cool."
>>17481781
You can improve greatly simply by not whining and not being an asshole. You have control over both of those things.
>>17481810
I lack enough self awareness to do so
>>17481824
How to not whine: keep your mouth shut.
How to not be an asshole: before you act, think about other people and how your behavior will affect them.
>>17481781
It's better to just be yourself.
>>17481836
I think long and hard yet I still come off as self centered or literally autistic