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I'm dating this amazing girl who's caring and pretty and loving and were both happy, but every now and then she starts talking about how she thinks I'm "the important one" in the relationship and that I'm the "primary" to all of our friends.
I'm not wrong in thinking this type of thinking is really toxic right? She's dealt with anxiety and bad depression in the past and still grapples with it now with self esteem issues. How do I help her? I feel so shit when i don't know how to convince her shes not a piece of crap or a loser
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u cant help her only take advantage of this moment and her
...if u RLY care suggest she sees a therapist/ you both see a relationship therapist
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She's probably actually not that amazing. Our brains play a really cruel trick on us when we meet someone new of the opposite sex. We overlook all their faults, and rationalize away all their bad behavior. She's probably just like every other petty, jealous girl out there. What you're seeing right now is nothing more than a veneer. If you're still together in 6 months you will begin to resent her. If you're still together in a year she will become unbearable.
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I will talk to her about it, thanks
>>17478770
I've been with her for 2 years, still love her more than anything, I appreciate the advice though, definitely did a lot of thinking in the very beginning
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