How do i stop being PHYSICALLY nervous around girls. 25 y/o

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2016-08-19 22:24:53 Post No. 17477547
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Anonymous 2016-08-19 22:24:53 Post No. 17477547 [Report]

How do i stop being PHYSICALLY nervous around girls.

25 y/o virgin here. I'm improving. i can get cute girls from tinder but i can't keep them around for long due to my deep-rooted anxiety from still being a virgin. I know they say 'fake it til you make it', but how am i supposed to do that when my body betrays me?

Last girl i met i had her sleeping in my bed but we didn't fuck. I'm sure that's what she came over for, but i couldn't deliver; ny nerves made it hard to breathe and unable to even get a boner so all we did was cuddle. Even with her sweet ass against my dick i couldn't get it up. She never spoke to me again.

Anyways, i have a date with an even hotter girl next weekend, and i don't want to make the same mistake again.

How do i learn from my mistakes rather than just cringe at the thought of them?

And how do i control my body? The girl i mentioned, THINKING about her and thinking about having sex with her gives me a rock-hard boner and makes me cum buckets, but having her right there in my bed, her body pressed against mine in painted-on yoga pants, i couldn't even feel my dick. Almost felt like there was nothing there.

Anonymous 2016-08-19 22:37:01 Post No.17477581
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Anonymous 2016-08-19 22:37:01 Post No.17477581 [Report]

>>17477547
Holy shit senpai it's just women. Why do you give a shit? They are objectively beneath us.

Anonymous 2016-08-19 22:37:11 Post No.17477582
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Anonymous 2016-08-19 22:56:57 Post No.17477659
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Anonymous 2016-08-19 22:56:57 Post No.17477659 [Report]

>>17477581
This type of thinking would actually help OP.

It sounds like a joke, but if you genuinly adhere to that belief then I'm confident you won't feel even half as anxious around them.

Anonymous 2016-08-20 00:12:10 Post No.17477857
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Anonymous 2016-08-20 00:12:10 Post No.17477857 [Report]

check out "no more mr nice guy" its a decent book, you seem to have internalized shame towards sexuality. I think this is something you should look at and try and understand why you may have those feelings. Theres nothing wrong with sexuality and expressing it by making moves on women, you're doing something right if you can get girls over to your house, but you just need to focus on your self and working on that. Best of luck OP you can do this.

Just acknowledge theres nothing wrong with making a move on girls and that chances are theyll like it.

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