Hey, /adv/. So, I've been (happily) dating a great girl for the past month and change. Though, she recently shared with me that; while I've pleasure her a great deal, she hasn't really "cum" yet. Now, she sad this in a very joking, casual way. She's far more sexually experienced than I am, so I'm basically trying to play catch-up. She's sweeter than sweet gets, so I know she meant nothing by it. She loves me to death: boasts about me to parents, friends, co-workers etc. she's smitten as hell with me and it feels great. I feel the same way about her. Everything is storybook.
But that comment has been a thorn in my paw for a few days now. I know I shouldn't be offended and I should stop being such a whiny pussy but goddamn was my pride wounded. I shouldn't let it get to me so much, in fact it was probably a very flirty challenge of some sort; but it's really bugging me. Any advice? I'm not going to bring it up to her but at the same time I don't want to bury it and the feelings it has caused and I start acting out as a result. I really do need help, thanks for reading my bullshit.
Does she have a fetish?
>>17476983
She mentions she has a toy or two, if you know what i mean
halp
Here is my advice to you, as a girl
The female orgasm is a tricky thing, every girl is different; some can get it from penetration, some can't. There's no way for you to know what she likes, so there's nothing to feel ashamed or inadequate about. The only way for you to know is for her to show you. Ask her to pleasure herself the way she likes best and watch, then keep practicing doing it that way.
Good sex is just practice. Relax and have fun with it.
>>17477129
Thanks a lot, this is very helpful
>>17477129
seconding this