Erectile dysfunction while fucking, diamonds during manual and

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So,

I've been living the life of a hermit for about three years, barely interacting with the ladies past professional or occasional situations, and now I got a girlfriend out of a sudden. She's the bomb diggs, and there's tons of sex. Before that, there was three years of me, myself and I.

But, when we fuck, I gradually lose my erection. Not completely, partially. More often than not, it's good enough to get her off, sometimes even get off myself, but it's not the rod of steel it should be.

On the other hand, she can blow me for ages, and I stay rock-hard. She can go for some good old manual labour, and I stay at attention. She can whisper something lewd or press her gorgeous body against me, and I feel the blood flowing.

Yet, when I do her in certain positions, the falchion becomes flaccid. A soft spear penetrates no woman's heart, and I feel fucking bad about it, too. I get her off without fail, that's not the issue. The issue is, she notices my shrinking interest in sex. We fuck pretty much every other day, evening and morning, sometimes - schedules permitting - more often than that.

Once my sword shrinks, it becomes dormant, and no coercing gets it sharp again. She blew me like a champ when I slipped out of her delightful pussy, but I would not go beyond half-mast. It's embaressing, because she deserves a good fucking.

Now, if it would only be with her, I'd chalk it up to her being a loose cunt and me throwing a salami down the empty hallway, but she has some respectable vaginal muscles and knows what she's doing. And, I notice similar patterns when I try and rub one out, too.

As for pic related:
- no meds
- smoker (~10 a day)
- barely drink
- I might not be able to run a marathon, but my heart's fine
- not that I'm aware
- had none done other than a tonsilectomy a decade ago
- not depressed/stressed in the slightest
- our relationship is damn solid and healthy (I brought this up, too)

Now I am a bit lost as to how to proceed. Maybe a cockring. Pls help.