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/adv/ I don't know how to spice up the bedroom
for refrence, I'm a 24 year old female, so I'm not into stupid daddy-dom tumblr babby shit
my boyfriend and I don't get a lot of time to fuck, and when we do, it's usually pretty boring
He's so shy, it hurts
we've been together for a year and a half and it's just so stale
I came out of a relationship with a dude who was pretty kinky, and I enjoyed it
I love my boyfriend, but he just kind of fucks me, cums, and then gives me a kiss
I just don't get it. He has had a ton more experience than I have, but he's so boring, it hurts
I've tried so many things, and nothing seems to click with him
I've tried suggesting bondage, I've bought some hot massage candles, I've bought lingerie, dildos, buttplugs, costumes, like all the easy entry-level kink stuff
I don't know what to do anymore
I feel like crying. Sex isn't fun.
It's a miracle if I even cum
WHAT DO I DO
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>>17475213
Tell all this to your boyfriend.
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>>17475254
I feel like telling him this all with no buffer is going to crush his heart
we've had so many other problems, i kinda just want to leave, but i do love him and i don't want to hurt him
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>>17475213
Love your boyfriend but find yourself a guy on the side who will scramble your ovaries.
You have a nice, loving boyfriend, etc. but you also have needs that aren't being met.
You're not doing this vindictively or to look for other guys to replace him; you're simply doing this to have your physical needs met.
I was in the same situation; my grillfriend I didn't have sex for over 6 months and I needed a jump start so I started fucking a cutie from college and my libido increased to OVER 9000.
Good luck and may the Force be with you.
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>>17475262
bait/10
not even trying, dude
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>>17475259
Just leave. You aren't doing anyone any favors by dragging this out.
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>>17475277
but I feel like it could be something good if I stay
i don't know what to do anymore
nobody have ever given me actual good advice
everyone here is fucking 12 now
4chan isn't my home anymore
this sucks
I hate being old and sad
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>>17475284
You aren't old. You just need to find a way to talk to him about your needs. I don't really know enough to give you proper advice, but it seems like you are making it harder than it needs to be.
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>>17475264
What makes you think thiQs is bait?
You're not getting what you want from your BF and he's obviously not going to change.
If you find the occasional guy and sleep with him, it'll fight off the hunger for kinky sex.
I loved my GF very much but the got stale and then we tried forcing kinky things and that made it worse.
I slept with a girl named Liz and it made me remember how much I loved sex and my GFs and I sex life went back to being great.
I know it's not exactly the same situation but it's more of a stop-gap measure; if you tell your BF he's boring in bed, it's going to crush his ego.
A mans biggest fear is looking stupid.
But if you think it's bait that's alright.
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