I managed to get a girl's phone number, but I found out she has a kid. That bothers me quite a bit, because that's apparently a dealbreaker for me, but also, I'm perfectly aware that I'm in absolutely no position to have dealbreakers.
What do.
Be honest with yourself.
Imagine another girl of equal caliber whose number you also got, but who doesn't have a kid. Which one are you honestly gonna be more interested in pursuing?
Don't settle. It's just you trying to convince yourself that you're okay with getting less than you really want. Never goes well.
>>17474116
Are you really prepared to raise another man's child? Fuck that shit.
>>17474152
No, but I did just find someone who would agree to go out with me, which doesn't happen. And I'm at an age where I probably would have a kid if I'd bothered to get my life in order when I was younger.
But also, it does actually bother me.
Get your dick wet until you find something else