I've tried getting around 15+ guys try oral sex on me, many

Be asexual, it's great

>>17473830
You can't just 'be' asexual. I would have to wait until menopause for it to stop

>>17473821
You are a great troll so there is that.
Why does /adv/ have the best trolls? It's not even because they need to be good since any poor attempt gets a lot of (you)s.

>>17473848
I'm not trolling.

>>17473821
What's making sex not pleasurable? You have the answer in your head somewhere. Focus on the sensations/feelings that seem to be absent. Work forward from there.

>>17474363
How can I focus on something that isn't there?

I know for a fact I make my girl scream with pleasure and gasp for air when I go down on her

Maybe I could help?

>>17474468
Yeah that's what they all say, and then they're shocked when their tricks don't work on me

What do you usually do?

>>17474464
How do you know when a piece is missing from the middle of a nearly complete puzzle?

>>17474532
What if you can't see any puzzle pieces at all. Just someone licking and sucking parts of you.

>>17474480
The problem isn't them, it's you.

If you can't make yourself have an orgasm that feels good (and you've actually spent a good amount of time trying), it's really unlikely that someone else will be able to.

I'd suggest trying a vibrator. Magic Wand, Jackrabbit, or if you know someone who has one, a Sybian.

A lot of women have trouble letting go enough to orgasm. That's something that most will eventually learn to do. If you're someone who feels a sensation like you need to pee and then clamp down on it, you need to let that go. Put some towels down, fuck in a bathtub, whatever.

>>17474588
If you read my opening post you would know that I already have a vibrator wand. A doxy, which is 30% more powerful than a magic wand

I don't have any need to pee sensations, and I think I have orgasms but I'm not sure, because I'll have involuntary contractions and then feel relaxed, but it's not that pleasurable.

A small portion of women are just like you.
It could be that your brain is wired wrong or a chemical imbalance.

You are better off seeking professional help from someone who is more qualified.

>>17474606
Is there a cure?

if you're not sure if you have orgasms, you aren't having them. the contractions aren't orgasms. try a womanizer.

>>17473821
I agree that if you can not make yourself orgasm then another person will never be able to.