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I'm a 25 year old guy, soon I'll be 26. Unhappy with my life and existence and I don't know what to do. Some days are "good" and others even hurt wake up.
I work in a company that requires me to travel a lot around my country. So I have losteoporosis all my friends because I had been living out a lot of time. I realised that sometimes time and distance breaks.
Also you can imagine my love life and sexual life. I don't have had a girlfriend since I was in high school and that was more than 10 years ago. My self esteem is in a basement locked with chains. I consider myself ugly, not the kind of ugly that is difficult to see but enough to not be desired by anybody. Also I'm bald so that helps the mix.
So that's how I am, alone (I have my family and I thank God for it), sexually and love frustrated and anything right now but my family makes me feel that my life is worthy.
I have been with several escorts and I realised that I don't want only sex, I need something more and I was trying to obtain it with them.
I see that each day I'm becoming more desperate and I don't know what to do.
Sorry for the self pity wall of text.
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* lost not losteoporosis my phone auto corrected that
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>>17473394
that's funny as hell
losteoporosis
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what have you tried?
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Online dating. Its shit and kinda hard work but its your only option. There are some nice people still out there.
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>>17473725
Doing exercise, meet people in apps like tinder, finding a hobbie or spend my time with something to not think a lot, trying to contact again old friends.
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First understand this that your responsible for your own happiness. Feeling sad is you reaction to the current situation you can not only change your reaction but the situation as well but that meens going out of your comfort zone which is scary at first but goddamn it is worth it.
I don't think your stuck or any think you many not given it much though but you know what you ought to do and what to change believe in yourself and don't dwell on failures take it easy and believe in your self :p
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>>17473738
tinder is only good for guessing at sexual compatibility. I don't know people who find true love on there.
old friends could be a start. socializing and pursuing social interests is a good idea.
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>>17473732
maybe this
I have seen other online dating sites work. don't pick bottom-tier ones.
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>>17473394
Lots of people are miserable. I am too. All for different reasons. Don't be fooled into thinking that we are supposed to be happy though, or that anything can make you happy.
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>>17473743
I have talked with old friends and meet up again. Something doesn't work and our lifes are so different, they have meet new people or simply they have moved to other cities to find a job or they are busy working and doing their things.
I have contact with some of them, we can talk and have a drink from year to year and that's all.
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>>17473755
I don't want anybody to feel like I'm feeling right now, even my worst enemy.
I know that life is cruel and harsh but years ago I didn't feel like my life was shit and that I was living a worthless life and I wasn't a "happy" guy either.
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