Had sex for the first time today. I didn't find it arousing

>>17467112
I'm assuming this is just with some hookup. If it were with someone you had a genuine emotional connection with it would be better.
Some people seem to be perfectly fine having hookup type sex and actually enjoy it, although maybe they're just bullshitingbut for people like me, and you apparently, it's empty and a total waste of time.
Try to find someone you actually feel connected to next time and you'll enjoy it a whole lot more.

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>>17467112
>stop watching porn
>ease up on jacking off (once a week)
>exercise more
>eat healthier

And what >>17467126 said, you will most likely have a better time with someone you actually lust for and are attracted to physically and emotionally, rather than some easy fucktoy you meet.

>>17467126
This nigga is absolutely correct.

>inb4 "you're just a virgin who can't get laid and that's why you don't enjoy hook ups olololol"

Another thing, OP, do you watch a lot of porn? Try going NoPorn for a while, I guarantee you'll be more aroused.

>>17467126
Thanks

>>17467112
If I feel aroused at young Hermione, am I a pedo?

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>>17467138
>Try going NoPorn for a while

Not OP, but serious question. How do people fap without porn? I've heard of erotic literature, but I think it would be extremely hard (no pun intended) to go to that from full on visceral pornography. Some people suggest just fapping without any sort of aid.

I suppose after a long enough time with enough pent up sexual tension, it would be possible. But still. How does one go about doing a NoPorn when they've watched porn all day for a decade?

>>17467270
What you said already, if you don't touch porn or your own boner for like a week or two it'll be very easy to get off on your own imagination.

>>17467270
Imagination. Try some time.

>>17467270
Personally I jack off to girls I know on Instagram

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>>17467300
Doesn't that still technically count as porn? I mean, you're fapping to an image on the internet. I feel that No Porn implies that you're not using any type of stimulation apart from your mind to get off. Looking at a girl's Instagram (especially some girl's Instagram are especially slutty) would still count as porn in my book.