what do you do about pals that complain all the time and reject any solutions to their problems, and who aren't empathetic towards others' struggles?
generally I stop being friends with them.
I either win them round to a slightly more reasoned train of thought.
Or I make a note not to get involved with them on any topic that would bring up such stuff and leave then to their own devices.
>>17466156
how do you get them to have more positive thoughts or whatever?
>>17466157
Well this a skill a developed over many years and I don't always get the best result.
I quite complex but the best description I can find is here.
http://lifetrainingonline.com/blog/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people-how-to-win-people-to-your-way-of-thinking.htm
They become comrades