Hi adv. In the past year I haven't really felt confident

>emotional cheating
>manipulative
>gaslighting
Break up with him. I know it's going to be hard, but you're much better off without him than with

>>17461134
maybe you couldn't satisfy him sexually
it is very likely your fault op

>>17461134
>>17461139
nah just talk to him about it. You seem kinda over sensitive about it but we have no idea what he said to this girl. or if she is just a random or someone on his friends list he plays with often.

>>17461146
He said it was my fault because I was not giving him enough attention and we didn't have sex as often as he would like

>>17461154
Talking to him isn't going to do anything, he'll just shift the blame onto her.

>>17461154
They are in the same guild and talk on discord everyday (not alone but still). I read the convos, they were exchanging pictures and talking dirty.
I talked to him about it. "why don't you trust me" and "what, should I just stop playing the game?!" are his only arguments.

I also asked to check his phone a few days ago and he threw a fit how I'm being annoying paranoid like that. But I can't help it... I work a lot and whenever he plays I'm not home so I don't know what's happening..

>>17461163
You come off as passive. You should probably throw down an ultimatum. Don't beat around the bush. He is basically trying to beat you to the punch by throwing down his own ultimatums.

Basically if you care about him tell him Stop it or its over. if your feeling so so about him leave him.

>>17461179
The thing is he said he found a really good guild and leaving it because of her would "suck". Should I tell him to stop talking to her 100% or what? Tell him to leave the guild? I don't wanna be one of those "stop playing this game" kinda gf...

>>17461134
It may be hard op but remember a relationship is built on mutual trust and respect, first of all he should have adressed the problem you both didnt have sex enough, not go and speak to some other girl i mean, he could have chosen to watch porn meanwhile, not cheat on you with some other girl. Tell him to see it in your perspective, it was disrespectful to your trust and you as a person, if instead you were the one that did it, how would he react? ask him and tell him to be honest.
secondly, i really doubt how mature he is, i really think he is not ready to be in a "relationship" at least not a serious one if he is not willing to make you feel secure by taking action then you shouldnt be willing to forgive him.
remember words< actions
or just dump him, he doesnt seem really nice with you and he is kinda manipulating you that it was your fault instead of talking with you first or your confidence, a relationship should be about making sure you are both confident in happy

once trust is hurt like that op is hard to try and work it out, you should just end it or you will suffer and keep crying at night

>>17461146
You're a cunt

>>17461155
Your bf is a needy cunt for going after other women rather than leaving. But yes, he likely left because he wasn't satisfied, which isn't your responsibility. He needs a girl that's gonna give him what he needs, you just need a guy who's gonna give you what you need.