I'm a 22 yo male who has been with his gf over a year now.

>>17461010
Don't lie man. You can't chop your hands off. Then who would make the sandwich?

22 is still pretty young to be thinking about marriage and I'd say your friends are the unusual ones. Do you have a desire to get married in the future? How much longer do you see yourself being with this girl?

>>17461021
That's what I was thinking. Like I don't want to get married young, so I don't know if that's why I can't see myself being with her forever or if I just never will.

>>17461021
We both want to be married eventually, late 20s. So I don't want to keep her around for another few years just to realize she isn't right for me in the very end.

>>17461025
How long do you see yourself with her? If you were to get married, approximately what age do you think you'd want to get married?

>>17461038
Late 20s early 30s. I don't think there is ever gonna be any reason to leave her, so I see myself with her quite a while, like at least 2 more years. I just don't have that, "I want to be with her forever" feeling. So I'm wondering if that comes later, or if after 14 months I just have to accept that she's awesome, but just not for me.

>>17461057
Eh, I say forget about this. Go with the flow, don't sabotage your relationship over something that hasn't actually happened. This is literally all in your head

>>17461063
Thanks, I really don't want to end it, I think I'm just too worried about hurting her if it does end later, so I'm trying to ruin it now.