Hey /adv/
So, when I was a kid I used to be a fatass and now I'm pretty normal 173cm 68kg, I work out whenever I can (disabled btw) and have changed up my eating habits quite a bit, which has resulted me having quite a decent figure. I'm not sure if I'll end up losing any more if I continue being healthy, but that isn't the issue here.
Thing is, my hamily were already bullying me over it when I was 170 and 70kg a while ago and spewing some bullshit about how I'm "anorexic" and wanted to send me to the doctor, even though they are all literally obese and think they're normal.
How do I deal with this? It's only increasing as I work out more and my thin privilege gets to them more and more. I'm in education and can't really move away from my hamily, at all because (disabled btw)
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Just shrug it all off, and continue working out and look good. Theyre prob just jealous cause their fatass cant even sit on a normal chair.
talk to them and tell them that you find their words disrespectful. tell them that you enjoy your life and your body and you're doing this because it makes you happy. tell them if they can't accept that then they should keep their negative comments to themselves.
here what I think:
your weight loss is a direct attack on their belief that it's ok to be OVERweight. it's their justification for not taking the steps that you've taken in order to improve your health. this is why I suggest appealing to their emotions as logic may only make them defensive, and in turn more aggressive toward your "thin privilege".
>google bmi chart
>see where you and your family fall on the scale
>next time they give you shit, tell them where you fall on the scale and where they fall (normal weight, overweight, or obese)
also this: >>17460170
>your weight loss is a direct attack on their belief that it's ok to be OVERweight.