I only get to see my girlfriend a couple hours a week and it's

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2016-08-13 20:17:28 Post No. 17457387
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Anonymous 2016-08-13 20:17:28 Post No. 17457387 [Report]

I only get to see my girlfriend a couple hours a week and it's killing me.

A little background, we've been together close to 5 months now, She works 9-5, i work evenings. While we live relativly close together (30 min journey) but it's not practical for me to go to hers after work as she would have to be up less than 6 hours later to go to work again. However it does give me the time to go and meet her during her lunch break, and we have the weekends to catch up.

But ever since she went on holiday with her family lunch meetups have dropped to once or twice a week and i haven't seen her on the weekend for the last month. She says she's busy or tired (Which i believe to be true as work is running her ragged), but i don't know how much longer i can cope not seeing her, not cuddling up and watching movies or reading and just not seeing her for more than 2 hours a week.

I want to bring this up, but fear coming off as clingy or adding more stress to what seems to be a rough time, i'm just at a loss.

Anonymous 2016-08-13 20:22:55 Post No.17457399
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Anonymous 2016-08-13 20:22:55 Post No.17457399 [Report]

Dude, holy fuck, this is why you learn how to be happy on your own BEFORE getting into a relationship. Jesus man, learn meditation or something.

Anyway, sounds like you can't do much about the situation right now. So what you want to go cry to her about it? Develop some equanimity instead of complaining about things you can't change.

Anonymous 2016-08-13 20:26:13 Post No.17457406
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Anonymous 2016-08-13 20:26:13 Post No.17457406 [Report]

>>17457399
Thanks anon, this may come across as sarcastic because text is like that, but actually thanks for putting things into perspective for me.
Maybe i'm not ready for this relationship yet.

Anonymous 2016-08-13 20:34:42 Post No.17457421
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Anonymous 2016-08-13 20:34:42 Post No.17457421 [Report]

>>17457406
Im not saying break up, just quit being a pussy.

Anonymous 2016-08-13 22:58:18 Post No.17457827
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Anonymous 2016-08-13 22:58:18 Post No.17457827 [Report]

>>17457387

was in the same boat as you OP, but if you keep at what you're doing it will ruin everything around you, work on improving yourself in ever way. Do what you please op, if she asks, just say you've been busy.

Anonymous 2016-08-13 23:59:29 Post No.17458032
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>>17457421
Yeah, i think i just needed a scolding to get me out of my own cycle of self-pity

>>17457827
Cheers for the advice, i think i'll just leave her be until she asks me to meet up with her

Have another fishbowl as thanks, these things are cute

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