hey guys,
i have a problem and id be happy if u can help or give me some tips.
so i have a girlfriend for the first time, im a virgin and have problems having sex. when it comes to sex my dick always gets flaccid, i mean before i enter her, especially when i put a condom on. we tried it a few times and had long foreplay but it still didnt work out. i stopped masturbating and i always did that to stupid fetish porn. shes definetely not the problem, it is me. or maybe its the pressure im exerted, i dont know..
don't use a condom (at first, if she insists later on then put it on after you're good and hard), drink a beer or 2 to calm your nerves, smoke a bowl of that helps (weed usually makes me horny as a goat), take a little Xanax if you're nervous, if all else fails just picture some really hot porn in your head to get hard. I've done it before ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
>>17457297
Is a troll.
a condom can definitely kill your boner especially if you aren't rock hard yet. Wait until you know you're solid until you put it on.
Also, most people have a go to for getting hard. Kissing, fingering her asshole etc you need to find yours.
Lastly don't be afraid of thinking of somebody else or a certain situation I know some people feel like they're cheating but that's bullshit
You need to spend a lot of time getting her relaxed. That way her vag will be easier to penetrate.
To help speed things along your first position should be doggy as it's the easiest to enter them smoothly.
Lay her down on the bed and put a pillow under her tummy so her ass is raised get her to spread her knees so her bottom goes down a bit because during soggy you need to fuck downstairs or it hurts them
Is the artist in OPs post the same guy who did dir en greys album art a while ago. It looks nice
The question is, how can i stay hard or get relaxed?
>>17457262
Stop watching porn 100%
Stop jacking off, at most once a week