How does one initiate a conversation with someone one's

>>17456971
Laugh it off with her/him. With a sincere chuckle:

>Hey, so my dumb but well meaning friend kinda let a cat out of a bag before I had a chance to just ask you myself. Sorry about that. Anyway, I'd like to take you to dinner sometime.

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>how do I talk to somebody I'm in love with
you're in love, figure it out

P.S. I don't think you're in love

>>17456977
Why don't you think that I'm in love?

>>17456976
The thing is, we don't talk that much. It's so so very one sided.

Was in same situation, but I waited a month before bothering to tell her it's not what it seemed. She was pissed af, then asked her out a few days later, she said no, obviously

Don't wait, just talk to her, don't mention your friend. The longer you wait, the more awkward it gets.

>>17456988
prolly has a bf/gf or doesn't like you, its prolly just a normal crush u have, just fight it and try to stay away, the crush will go away in a few months

>>17456971
best advice i can give is to just say it no matter the response in my experience it's the best course of action

>>17456983

You're not in love with someone if you can't even fucking talk to them.

>>17457209
>what u call a crush

>>17457227

Love and infatuation are two completely different things.

I think you're best off ignoring what was said about you and seeing how things go without addressing it.
>>17456976
For the love of God, don't say this. I am having trouble imagining a better dehydrator.

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>>17457229
I'm scared af when I'm around them. But when we do talk it feels like heaven. And I'm pretty sure it's not because of looks.

>>17457195
No gf/bf man. 11 months is a bit long for a crush right? And I can't seem to get over it.

>>17457283
If you can't talk with her you probably just idealized some personality for her which may not be real.

>>17457289
yep that's long , uh listen this may be a generic response but JUST FUCKING TELL HER YOU LOVE HER AND ASK IF SHE LOVES U TOO , u are not getting anywhere if u don't.

>>17457309
Not particularly. We used to talk a lot. I don't think I admire them in any way. It's just that I want to be next to them.

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>>17457329
I nearly don't even have the courage to talk to them. But you're right. I'll do my best.

>>17457343
She's going to say no. Also, you're underage b&.

>>17457379
Wtf, underage?

>>17457329
No... No no no no... NO do NOT tell them you love them fucking hell... It sounds like your are in "lust" anon extremely infatuated which is fine but don't confuse it with love & DON'T tell the girl you love her unless you want her to think you're a weird pushy desperate freak. Ask her out CASUALLY don't talk about feelings to much or she gonna bolt

>>17458363
How do you know that's it not love?

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>>17456976
>>>>>Hey, so my dumb but well meaning friend kinda let a cat out of a bag before I had a chance to just ask you myself. Sorry about that. Anyway, I'd like to take you to dinner sometime.

>>17456971

You're not in love. You're infatuated. They are two different things.

You can't be in love with someone you have a hard time initiating conversation with.

>>17458617
>>17458617
>we don't talk much
>I'm scared af when I'm around them
>I just want to be next to them
You don't know this person very well now (even if you did before, if you used to talk) so how can you love them? You get butterflies (scared) and desire physical closeness... it sounds like your pretty infatuated. You can't love someone without knowing them. Sounds like you're drunk on a deep crush. You can go for it why the fuck not, but don't be all [spoiler][/spoiler]"I LOVE YOU *anime reaction face*" bitch bye

>>17458746
I *do* know them well. We've known each other for so long.

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why didnt you make it obvious? instead of being an autistic shitbag.

>>17457309
>>17457229
>>17457209
This guy is spot on OP, it takes a while to know if youre in love

>>17458635
Okay that made me laugh quite a bit

>>17456971
sauce on the pic please