My partner is slowly losing interest and it's beginning to scare me. He used to have no problem with coming onto me, showing affection, etc. It began when I was pregnant. It was less and less, and I began to notice a spike of porn in our internet history. Then a couple of times where I saw craigslist personal ads. Then chunks of history began to be deleted. We've had sex a handful of times in the 3 months since our child was born. He never really initiated it, either. This morning I thought about trying to spicen things up by sending him my results to a kink test I took, and had asked him to send me his results back. Nothing. He spent his day on etsy. Does anyone have any tips on how to cope with this or possibly get him interested again?
Maybe you should have an upfront discussion with him?
He's probably gay
>>17455326
I have, and it's always "I'm still interested" or when I confront him about finding personal ads and deleted history it somehow gets turned around and it's my fault
>Nothing. He spent his day on etsy.
How much more info do you really need? Your husband is a turbo fag
>>17455328
>>17455337
not fully gay, just half. I'm the same, so I get it. He also was interested because I couldn't get him to leave me alone at one point and time.
Although I totally have called him a closet homo once.
>>17455345
I would leave. From what it sounds like you're just his cover. He might be one of those guys who are living a lie as not to look gay to the public. I don't mean to be a douche but do you have a manly figure? Does he take you from behind a lot?
>>17455376
I don't think I'm a cover. He likes women, I know that much. We both check out women constantly, and he does lurk the pics you're not supposed to share threads alot. As for body, I'm petite but not mannish in any way. I just feel like I must be doing something wrong