How does a man prevent his daughter from growing up and

>>17453215
Islam

>>17453217
>>>17453215 (OP)
Without being muslim

>>17453215
Don't try to hide information to her and don't make sex a taboo.
Don't set strict rules but make her understand she is responsible of her actions.
Don't talk shit about her friends and boyfriends.
Be a good example - show her how much having a good relationship is better than casual sex.
Support her and don't judge her.
Be a good parent, be present and loving.

>>17453215
Be honest with her, and open, my gf is 16 and has no real father and her step father is a POS felon. With no father figure in her life and a man to look up too. She sent hundreds of nudes to men ranging from 18-40+ because all she wanted was attention. And she learned sex apeal was a form of attention. It's taken me many months to coach her out of the bassakward thought processes that she created for her self into thinking that was okay. I hate having to play a daddy roll to my girlfriend, but if I didn't, then no one else would, and she would be giving out sex for attention now that she has a car. So the ability to teach your daughter, to not give sexual acts for men's attention, would very crucial, as I have witnessed the effects of this aspect being neglected In a young woman's life. It's better to talk about it, then to ignore it. Men should take girls out on dates, men that are in her age range. + or - 2 years is perfectly normal, and most safe for her. Older men arnt interested in her heart, and that's what she needs to understand. That any male she has a relationship with, should take care of her and treat her right. And to know what's right from wrong, and how to identify red flags in bad situations and know when to get away from a very bad male figure.

>>17453215
Tight regulations and a proper upbringing. So many parents are very hands off and let the media and technology raise their children, so they grow up with crappy values.

Do as good parents do, engage and love your child and treat it like it is, a 24/7 commitment. Good and regular contact with grandparents help, I was raised by both my parents and grandparents for example.

Also make sure she doesnt or isnt allowed out to house parties. The stricter you are the better but you need to match that with love.

Finally lead by example. Dont do drink or drugs yourself and be consistent with your parenting.

>>17453230
Not OP but that appeoach is dangerous cause if shecfalls astray, the parents wouldnt have the control to reel her back in. That and most western parents use this and if posts here and others are to go by, the les sai fair approach does not work.

>>17453244
>Also make sure she doesnt or isnt allowed out to house parties.
This is bullshit. All my friends with very strict rules turned out to be whores as soon as they turned 18. The best way to make a teenager want something is telling them they can't do it.

If you make your children understand why they shouldn't do something, they won't do it even if they can.

>>17453215
Don't cage her into what you believe she is. Let her find her own niche in the world and let her do her best in the betterment of society and humanity.

Raise her right. Show her traditional values. Proper etiquette and manners. Show her the value of protecting her most valuable asset: her body and her womb. Cherish family values like marriage and the home. Be there for her when she needs clarity and advice. Don't be afraid to get to know her and be the wall she leans on when she needs it.

Of all the crazy girlfriends I've had it always resulted from a missing father figure. They were never around. Either focused on work or just being ignorant of their growing up or just plain not acknowledging they exist. Women need a father figure and a man to walk them down the isle on their wedding day. Not a man that is too lax with raising them up and too afraid to be a leasing figure in the family.

God has set forth the ideal framework for humankind and it is the normal idyllic atomic family structure. With the man as the leader of the family. Distort that and this is the result.

>>17453252
A lot of parents don't spend time with their kids and don't teach them how to behave.
Making a child understand why a behaviour isn't correct works better than simply not allowing it and punishing any misbehaviour.
Strict rules and punishments just create a wall between you and your child because they are scared of you and your judgement.

>>17453259
I am going by the asian parents method who keep a tight leash on their children. If the girls became whores than that is still a result of terrible parents who only parented through restrictions. They still likely let them be raised by the media, ao the impulse is there just not the freedom. So once the parents decide she is "mature" at 18, she lets lose everything she has seen and wanted from media. Again, crappy parents.

>>17453215

I forgot to say too to get your daughter into a hobby at a young age to provide structure to her life. She needs to build a good work ethic from a young age.

>>17453268
I completely agree. Just like in adult relations, communication is paramount
That said kids are kids so punishment is of course necessary at times but explaining it to them is far better thsn just punishing with no reasoning why.

>>17453215
Kill yourself. Blow your conservative fucking head open with an assault shotgun.

Why are girls really slutty?

I know so few l girls that don't post slutty pictures online and have slept with men in the single digits.

>>17453270
All "methods" work the same if you don't put communication.
You make the experience unpleasant for the kid if you don't allow them to live normally growing up.
I have travelled, went to parties, came home at 4 AM, spent the night at my boyfriend. I loved my teenage years. I was the best student in my class, graduated with honours, had a scholarship for med school.
I didn't turn into a slut, I had one boyfriend and lost my virginity to him after 2 years of dating and stayed with him.
This because I was responsible, because my parents taught me what was right and what was wrong, and I knew what was the best behaviour to have.
They didn't need to control me because I knew how to control myself.

>>17453294
Go away degenerate.

Humanity has progressed from the family and the love and care for others. Not a society without values.

>>17453294
So you'd be proud of your daughter escorting on Instagram?

>>17453303
Thats a pretty top dollar story and happy to hear that. But I have a feeling your parents did a bit more than what you said. Not in a restrictive sense but in just being good parents.

Most dont. In the US in general, boys grow up obsessed with sex to the point they start losing their mind if they havent lost it at 18 and girls grow up with that tgeur body is the only thing they have which is wirth ut without actually being given a proper set of values. Research has also shown kids who stay with their parents in the US post 20 years become socially handicapped but in Europe they benefit. Never mindcthe insane level if stds and under age pregnancies. That clearly shows there is something wrong with the parenting in thr US.

I am happy to see you sound like you came from an exceptional family but I said to OP to be strict because in a normal context, its better to be safe than sorry. Asians are also renowned for their success in America so naturally their parenting style seems to be more consistent.

>>17453318
I posted this >>17453230
This is what my parents did for me.
You can't expect to have a good daughter if you aren't willing to be a good parent. It takes a lot of work, but they both accepted to work less to spend time with me and I was their main preoccupation till I turned 15 or so. I spent a lot of time with my grandparents, too.
Being strict means you are giving your child no space to experience and grow up. The kid will either end up breaking the rules or being a malfunctioning adults. It is important to allow your kids to make experiences people their age did. It is important to let your kids do mistakes. All you have to be sure is that they don't do huge mistakes that have long term consequences (getting pregnant) and that they learn from those mistakes.

>>17453347
Yes and in your context it makes sense. I posted this >>17453252.

We both were raised by 4 parents essentially who loved us. A lot and spent time with us and put in effort.

But that is not the standard in, again assuming OP is an American, the US. I was raised pretty much the same as you mind but I am suggesting what I am cause of >>17453318.

I am assuming OP is a bog standard parent who isnt terrible but not great either. So going by the expected standard of US parenting outside of the better and wealthier areas, I still think strict > moderation cause moderation is not something many new parents are capable of properly.

Essentially, im afriad I must agree to disagree. Not cause you are wrong but cause im talking more from a pessimistic stand point that OP doesnt have the capacity to engage in a full (grandparents and parents) family unit or the life experience. That and strictness was a large part if my own upbringing and our peers.

>>17453217
>implying muslim women aren't the dirtiest whores of all