So, out of nowhere, one of my ex-girlfriends (That lasted 3 years)

Shameless self bump

Depends on the relationship with your ex and your current gf. Tell your current gf about it, and ask if she'd want to go with you. If she really doesn't want you to go, you can either press the issue or just say you can't go to your ex.
It's all a judgement call, man. But don't lie to your current gf, keep her in the loop if you respect her at all.

send her a birthday card. but don't go.

>>17451391
Tell your girlfriend about it, but don't go without her. I feel like if you've had minimal contact in that time, and she's suddenly inviting you to her special day, she's wanting a little more than friendly banter. But a little more background on the relationship with your ex would help.

>>17451391
don't go OP, just don't.

1- if you go alone: your current gf will think that you want to fuck your ex and she will be mad at you

2- if you go with your gf: she will try to compete with your ex, and this will end badly, your gf will be mad at you for OnlyGodKnowsWhy reason

3- if you go alone without telling your gf it's your ex's party: your gf will find out and be mad at you

There is no girl on earth that wants to compete or know anything about your exes

>>17451497
>But don't lie to your current gf, keep her in the loop if you respect her at all.

I seriously try to keep secrets at minimum between us, but im sure she will get all mad if i ever told her about me going alone. And inviting her to tag along seems like an unconfortable idea for both parts (She and my GF)

>>17451515
>But a little more background on the relationship with your ex would help

My ex was my gf back in college days and she was basically, me but as a woman. We broke up because she went to study aboard, and i didn't really wanted to maintain a long distance relationship. We agreed to continue messaging each other and meet up after she came back.

After 1 year of waiting, she came back but was so changed that i felt she was like a completely different person. So, even if she wanted restart the relationship, i declined.

After that, we went along with our lives, and our contact gradually started to fade.

>>17451510
This is plan B. Only i was planning a more meaningful gift.

>>17451532
Also, OP here. I want to know a femanon opition about this

>>17451391

Don't do it OP
I've seen this movie, it's called "The Invitation". Look it up

jesus crhrist just avoid exes like the plauge whats so hard to understand in this rule? also I'm a femanon but this is common sense ffs...

>>17451391
are you retarded? why would you even consider going?

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>>17451616
femanon here

I would love to give everyone in this thread a bloody blowjob

>>17451669
Maybe because i really want to know what she is doing with her life. I cherish her a lot deep inside me.

>>17451391
>In those 3 years, we had minimal contact with each other but we are still friends in FB

Dont go. Wish her a happy birthday and apologise that you cant go then continue your life.

>>17451681
>Maybe because i really want to know what she is doing with her life.

Ask her these questions through Facebook. Its probably not good for either of you to stay in close contact.