>Get Tinder a few days ago.
>7 mutual likes
>I message all of them but they don't respond
So...do I just keep trying? What should I even say in a message?
>>17451075
maybe they were bots
>>17451075
Tinder isn't the right place for deep philosophical conversations, either ask them out for a date, or ask for pics.
Nobody wants to read a wall of text, have the convo on the date.
>>17451082
Thy probably wouldn't respond to either
Girls just have too many messages
>>17451075
If there is something interesting in their pics or bio, comment on that. Otherwise a simple: "Hey, what are you doing tonight?" will suffice.
>>17451082
>either ask them out for a date, or ask for pics.
Not for a first message, no
>>17451098
Probably, but at least you'd be edging your bets.
>>17451100
Not for a first message? That's the common knowledge? That's why you should go for it on the first message. Separate yourself from the crowd.
>>17451111
Would this work if I live in Poland? I hate reading tips on dating written by Americans that don't apply here
>>17451075
sometimes messaging twice DOES work. but sometimes they only respond if you got some sort of hook. seven matches. three messaged me, i messaged four. of those four 3 responded. only one did the 'non answer'
>>17451111
>Separate yourself from the crowd.
I don't agree on the rest, but I do agree on that.
>>17451116
I'm from Belgium and with the aforementioned message I get replies 80% of the time.
Don't sweat it though, there are plenty of matches, I don't even message most of them anymore, just the very best ones. If someone doesn't reply just move on to the next.
>>17451124
Belgian Bernd?