How does one get over a crush/oneitis/infatuated?
What tips would you suggest I take to get over a chick permanently.
Fuck another girl.
>>17450071
Not all of us are good with women.
Any other way?
>>17450077
Go to a prostitute.
>>17450077
Get good
Fuck your crush. That always works for me.
>>17450070
What if you've fucked other girls already?
>>17450326
Meant for this>>17450071
>>17450070
Ask to meet her, tell her your feelings because you need to, ask how she receives it, leave, cry.
Repeat periodically until you realize she understands your feelings, but there is nothing she can bring to you, move on to something better, no regrets
Any "ignore her" or revenge or bla bla turns pristine feelings into anger and frustration
>>17450380
That sounds like a bad idea because it could lead to intensifying feelings.
>>17450070
My experience is that only time can overcome crushes. Also, I had some personal coping strategies like write about her. Once I overcomed her I made sure to build a wall in my heart. I have feel ok since then, at least life is way more peaceful.
>>17450070
this happens to everybody, but it still sucks.
the first love can take a LOONG time.
second less,
3d even less.
and after a while you don't care anymore about rejection.
just don't let it come to my level where I don't even care about grills anymore. I'm struggeling to be horny again after so many grills..
imagine as many other grills as possible, watch (moar) porn.
and what nobody ever tells in these situations:
try to become as attractive as you can get. just get nice clothes as especialy shoes and stuff. you'll feel good about your looks, and yourself. really pay attention to how you should behave.grills will like you even moar, and boom, you're over it.
I saw my oneitis today and stupidly went to talk to him. Now missing him again. We only had a thing for a couple of months and he ended it because we were too different (he drinks a lot of alcohol, I don't at all, his hobby is gaming and mine is books, I have plans for my future and he doesn't). He's a skinny nerd with crooked penis and I think I will never feel this way about anyone else. Also he's younger than me, oh god.
It sucks but I guess time helps.