How do you figure out when it's the right time to have kids?

>>17449608
some people have it happen spontaneously and regret it but grow to enjoy it, others plan it out when they feel they're both financially stable and fulfilled in other areas of life.

if you feel like there are other areas of your life you want to improve on first, be selfish and focus on those things so you don't feel regret that you can't do them when/if you have children.

despite how much my parents love me, I know they regret not doing all the things they wanted to and it will stay with them the rest of their lives.

>>17449620
In my case, it's a question of timing. My fiance is in the military and we had planned to try to get pregnant when he's back again. Which would have been in autumn. Now he will have to stay longer. Probably untill autumn next year. We had decided to wait till he's back because we don't want him to misathe whole pregnancy and possibly even the birth. But now i'm debating to try to get pregnant in autumn anyways. I really, really was looking forward to it. I don't want to wait so long... What should we do?