I don't think my boyfriend can keep up with my libido and

This isn't a problem. Fuck off.

>>17449239
viagra ground up in every meal

>>17449247
Will this harm him at all? Might be kind of fun.

>>17449254
Is your boyfriend 45? No? Then yes, he could have a heart attack. It's not funny and you're basically saying to his face "you're not man enough for me and your dick must get up everytime I want".
What if he wanted you to be his cum dumpster even when you didn't want to? Would you like that?
Just get a fucking hobby, you slut

Seduce him. Find out what turns him on and do it. Better yet condition him to be aroused by doing something like putting your hair up/down/whatever the fuck every time you're about to get it on.

This does not mean pressure him, that'll backfire.

>>17449239
Exercise with him. No lie, go jogging or pick up a sport. If he isn't already active make it seem like doing so was his idea.

>>17449239

Lose weight and do more squats so you have a better ass, so he is more attracted to you.

>>17449320
Do this OP. Just seduce him. Once you get him turned on he will probably want to have sex.

>>17449307
Yeah, I would like that.

>>17449320
I'll try this more then. He's not very vocally expressive so it'll be tough.

>>17449359
I'm pretty fit. He's really just tired all the time but damn I wanna bang.

>>17449428

Where are you from? Ever contemplated cheating? I cheated on my girlfriend last week, no regrets.

>>17449239
in this case i recommend giving up sex or dressing hotter or try a diff personality in bed. i also dont masturbate.

>>17449428
Fucking just jump on him and pull out the dick. He's not going to scream rape, I promise.

>>17449450
I'm really only attracted to my boyfriend. Thinking about doing it with anyone else makes me sick.

>>17449456
I've asked him if I should try wearing something hot but he didn't seem interested. I'm way too shy to just do it.

>>17449467
I could do this, and yeah I'd probably get fucked. But it's just like, I need to feeeeeel something you know? If I do it this way he'll probably just nut and sleep.

>>17449489

>I'm really only attracted to my boyfriend

That is 100% bullshit and you know it.

>>17449491
Like okay, I can appreciate how another man might look, but I really don't want to have sex with someone else. It grosses me out.

if you cheat on him, you are damaged for the rest of your life. don't do that.

try approaching him at a different time of day when he is less tired. try seeing if you can arouse him while he is sleeping. make a game out of seeing how horny you can get yourself while he sleeps, then see how far you can get him before he wakes up...

>>17449239
ask

Shove a fluffy tail up your bum hole then entice him

>>17449450
You're a sucky person. Just so you know.

>>17449254
>>17449307

A better analogy for you would obviously be; would you like it if he always denied you sex?

Don't fucking drug him or force him, Jesus.

>>17449239
Tell him you want him to fuck you more.

>>17449239
>I don't think my boyfriend can keep up with my libido
>I don't think
First thing to do is verifying that assumption.
MANY men restrain themselves out of fear their girlfriend might think she's only seen as a sex object. They would be overjoyed to hear that their girlfriend wants more sex.

If you're my GF OP, just start staying the night more. You know you always get that good morning wood dick.

>>17449239
9 times out of 10 this is because he's not 100% comfortable with you (usually just because of some personal anxiety or lack of experience)

just try to get more comfortable talking about sexual stuff in a plain context/tone and then eventually you can find out what he likes and all that and how you can both enjoy it more

you'd be surprised how uncomfortable guys can get talking plainly about intimate things (usually taught to be less open about it)

>>17449251
This ^^
First what's is his age?
try to be a slut with him

>>17451957
Hes 27 and I'm 21.

>>17451947
This might be true. I'm a lot more animated during sex than he is. But I think we're both comfortable talking about it.

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I'm a guy but I've been on both sides of this
>ex gf
>totally subservient to me
>knew i could get sex whenever I liked and she'd be happy for the opportunity
>generally did it every day, maybe twice some days but she would still want more every now and then
current gf
>moved in together
>assfucked her on sunday since she was on her period
>its finished
>she still isn't initiating
>hasn't even blown me which is quite frankly a bit rude

Now at the moment I'm like you, in that my partner is the one who controls when we have sex. I don't think sex every day/other day is unreasonable but I've been initiating and getting shot down continually which feels awful.
I'm not going to talk to her about it because I don't want a pity fuck and she already knows how important sex is to me, which leads to my solution...

The plan is to freeze her out sexually until she gets nice and horny, I'll make out with her, twist her nipples which drives her crazy, then decide I'm actually not really 'into it' right now and I'll do it before bed. When that time comes I'll still not act on it and tell her I forgot.

By doing this I'll usurp her tyrannical reign over our sex life and slowly spoon feed her my cock, until we have sex the exact amount I like. It's nothing personal, but when people feel like they can get it whenever they want, they can get less horny and that's cruel. Then again, emotionally manipulating someone you love to bone more is cruel too. So someone tell me if it sounds like I'm going off the rails here...

>>17449239

You need to be honest with him (lol I know, right?)

One time my girlfriend and I didn't have sex for 6 months due to a number of factors.

Maybe the same applies to your situation.

If not then tell him you NEED him to fuck more because you're afraid of what you might do to get your needs met.

Seems a bit strong-armish but sometimes you need to put the fear of God into a man.

Initiate sex yourself fucking entitled cunt

>>17452306
>>17452297
I think my issue is that hes really lazy about sex. Maybe I'm getting bored.

>>17452311
Fuck off, why is it so bad that I want him to be a fucking man and fuck me?

>>17452322
just show him you also want it and he will fuck you harder than before.

>>17452297
My gf cut me off when we moved in together. Broke up with her on monday and we had sex last night. We still live together but she is moving out

>>17449239
Some possible scenarios:

1. Your man is a closet homo.
2. You have some off-putting habit. Are you a tobacco user?
3. You have poor hygiene, bad breath, or otherwise unfortunate body chemistry. I was with a girl for several years and she was super cute, outgoing, fit, and decent in the sack... but she had this weird sour metallic taste/aroma to her and it eventually got to be a massive boner killer every time we made out.
4. You're doing something socially or behaviorally that is at best making him uncomfortable, and at worst making him feel emasculated.
5. You have a colorful sexual history and he's either grossed out or intimidated by it.

>>17452329
that sucks man, why do you think she cut you off?

Find a guy with more testosterone.

A lot of couples have mismatched sex drives. I've been on both sides of the equation. It's an issue that comes up, just people who want to go out every night versus natural homebodies. Unlike those other issues, couples don't talk about it, or have emotionally charged conversations that leave one or both partners feeling ashamed or "less than."

You should have a healthy conversation with him (NOT IN BED or right before/after sex).

There are a lot of other factors, including health or depression issues. Between myself and a few of my guy friends, we've all experienced lowered sex drives or even erectile dysfunction that was related to stressors at work, in the relationship, or otherwise that caused the problem.

There are a huge amount of things that could lower his sex drive and he might not even be aware of them. I for one didn't realize how INCREDIBLY stressed I was about work/family issues, nor did I realize how poorly I was managing a chronic health condition until my ex pointed it out. She had a naturally higher drive than me, but part of my inability to keep up was that I'd been "just getting by" for so long that I didn't realize I how stressful and unhealthy my daily life had become.

She didn't stick around long enough to see me make huge strides in reducing my stress and managing my digestive condition, but I'm grateful that she lit a fire under my ass about it. I'm also grateful that it was NEVER in a charged conversation that made me feel accused or shamed.

Honestly, it's a very tough subject to deal with in a healthy manner (even if you don't mention a word about it being connected to sex). And a lot of people, male and female, have no idea how close to the razor's edge they are when it comes to health and stress.